Problem
Gamers fight against Feminists because Men are badly portrayed.
Feminists fight against Gamers because Women are badly portrayed.
Designers...badly portray both genders.
Those same designers who re-build, re-write, re-make, overcharge, DRM-enable, squander, flanderise and sequelise every other aspect of game play.
Because their bosses say if they don't...they're fired.
So...
We can stop buying those games!
Except...
The "not-gamers", who buy most of the games, buy the girls with the big pixels.
The "feminists" rail against every portrayal of women in games - but different levels of feminists against different portayals of women.
So designers remove all positive portrayals of women as feminists can't seem to make up their mind, and sell them back to the boys who...let's face it...love to stare at beautiful women.
Why isn't this being done as much to the men? It is. Just in a different way.
(obvious hetero sterotypes are obvious)
Hormone enhanced men like boobs/butts and legs - sometimes personality as well.
Hormone enhanced women like deep, strong men - which is, like Bob says, how they're portrayed - name a wimpy, cowardly male that holds any sort of IP with women.
(I'm assuming LGBT stereotypes work in reverse - but I can't be sure)
So....finally - Feminists and Gamers are the same people - arguing for and against the same things - but are kept in constant stages of fighting by...
not wanting to talk to each other.
Which is why we're Feminists and Gamers in the first place. Otherwise we'd just be making sweet monkey love together.
Any talk of the main audience being hormonal males has already been disproved. It's just they're the EASIEST to get to.