The great sex and sexuality questionnaire! (Will probably get NSFW)

[username sucks]

1) Male

2) Gay

3) Light CBT, furry, and exhibitionism.

4) Probably pretty tame compared to others, but I performed on webcam a few times for an audience of strangers. Got myself a few followers, too. While it was exciting (see exhibitionism above) I never got over how nervous it made me, so I haven't done it in a while.

5) Like most others. Non-consensual or anything involving scat, blood, or piss turns me off right away.

 

[William Fleming]

1. Male

2. Straight (and I'm beginning to think I might actually be asexual)

3. I enjoy the company of maids and having full control over women, if any of that counts

4. I'm still a virgin and never had a girlfriend, that might be the most freakish thing... or why I don't have any freakish moments

5. Certain bodily fluids that have been mentioned throughout this thread at this section

 

[Johnny Novgorod]

1) Male

2) Straight

3) Are big breasts a fetish?

4) Sex against things other than a bed.

5) Not sure.

 

[DementedSheep]

Well as a virgin my answer going to be pretty boring.

1) Gender
Female

2) Sexual orientation
I...don't know. Hetro or maybe Asexual? I don't really know because I have very very little interest in sex, both the act and imagery and I haven't had any. I also don't really think about people in terms of romance. I've dated but only because people have asked me out and I figured I might as well but it never lasts long because it never gets anywhere. Who knows? maybe that will change one of these days if I discover the "joys of sex" with someone I actually want a relationship with or something but I am really not in a hurry to try it.

3) Fetishes
See above.

4) Freakiest thing you've ever done or had done to you
See above

5) Where do you draw the line?
If I decided to actually have it all the usual...scat, vomit, gore, vore ect. I don't want my mouth anywhere near genitals and I absolutely hate the idea being dominated even if it's just role-play and it's the sub who ultimately has control. If I'm far more honest than I should be on the internet I think that might actually be part of my aversion to sex in general or maybe it's the other way around. I think somewhere along the line my brain tied having sex with someone (especially with a guy) to being dominated and loss of control.

 

[Ten Foot Bunny]

1) Gender
Female

2) Sexual orientation
Lesbian/Bisexual (VERY rarely bi, but without sexual attraction to guys if that makes any sense at all)

3) Fetishes
Too many to name! I used to model BDSM gear for magazines years ago, but not BDSM porn. That's not to say I didn't pose nude, because I did my fair share of that. I love rabbits, and if you don't know what those are, look elsewhere--I'm not explaining them here. Looking at porn is also fun, but nothing that shows penises, penetration (with synthetic OR biological objects), slave fantasies, torture, or causing pain to another. I like it simple, sensual, and tasteful.

4) Freakiest thing you've ever done or had done to you
Nothing comes to mind, except maybe the one time I got unexpectedly pulled into a threesome after I'd downed nearly a whole bottle of Stoli. I've also had a lot of sober girls spontaneously kiss me in straight bars. My only guess is that, when they choose to do something so bold, they probably pick me because I'm very noticeable. I like to wear heels and I stand about 6'3" when I do.

5) Where do you draw the line?
Anything related to bodily fluids or excretions. Anything anal. And penises... they're gross. (Told you my bisexual side was strange.)

 

[InsanityRequiem]

1) Physical Gender: Male. Mental Gender: Genderless

2) Sexual orientation: Asexual

3) Fetishes: None

4) Freakiest thing you've ever done or had done to you: None due to being a virgin

5) Where do you draw the line? If I were to have sex, I'd draw the line on blood play, water sports, scat, and ravishment play (Rape fantasy). Maybe the more extreme types of pain too.

I'm boring, here to mess up the questionnaire~

 

[NoeL]

4) Giant dildo, butt. You figure out the rest.

Right on. /highfive. Nothing quite like a giant dildo up the butt.

1) Male.
2) Straight.
3) Fisting/large objects (particularly anal), squirting.
4) Apple, butt. You figure out the rest. Also one time I injected hair conditioner down my urethra to see if I could fake a big cumshot. I had to go to hospital. Can't say I've done anything particularly "freaky" with a partner though. Light bondage and dildo play is about the extent of it.
5) Scat, degradation/humiliation, blood.

 

[lacktheknack]

1. Male

2. Technically straight, increasingly asexual

3. I do have a thing for significant size differences between the partners (big dude, small lady)

4. lolvirgin

5. lol prude FTW

 

[Something Amyss]

1) Gender - female

2) Sexual orientation - if it can consent, it has a chance.

I prefer women to men, but I'm yet to let genitals or gender identity get in the way of attraction. And several of my ostensibly female longer relationships turned out to be either transmen or at least "ambiguous" or questioning. Which isn't really an issue for me, but the pattern has made me think...

3) Fetishes - varies. I have sort of a fluid sexuality, if it hasn't showed by now. What interests me in terms of fetish one day might not the next. My porn collection is weird.

4) Freakiest thing you've ever done or had done to you - depends on how you measure it. I've tried some heavy bondage and the like, but the one that sticks out to me was sex in a church because of the whole "sacrosanct" thing. I also had a girlfriend I found out could orgasm without the usual types of contact, and did that in many, many inappropriate places.

5) Where do you draw the line? - It varies, but never goes beyond the lines of consent and harm. No means no and I can't do more damage to someone else than maybe make their skin red from a light slap without serious emotional issues on my end. There are other things I'm both for and against on any given day, but those are hard lines for me.

 

[Vendor-Lazarus]

Have you ever seen the movie 40 year old virgin? well, I've still got ten years left.

1) Physically: Male, Mentally: Mostly male..I think.

2) Mostly Hetero, I think.

3) Quite a lot, tomboys, furry, etc. Lets just say I've got a varied porn collection.

4) Suck myself off once. Anal play. Tame stuff, I know.

5) Too many to list. The main theme would be pain and scat/fluids. Also, big breasts is a turnoff for me.

 

[Saulkar]

1. Gender - Male

2. Sexual Orientation - Bisexual

3. Fetishes - 0_0... A lot but at the same time I only recently discovered I have developed an abject fear of letting people get that close again so I have yet to experience any of them with another person.

4. Freakiest thing I have ever done is try to figure out how sex actually works, outside of porn, with another guy my age when I was a young teen.

5. Where do I draw the line? BDSM, including Dominance or submission of any kind, scat, and non-consent. It does not matter how rough it gets as long as it goes both ways and remains enjoyable for all parties involved.

 

[Trude]

Oh lawdy this is a lot to take in.

1. Male.
2. Heterosexual.
3. Costume play, tight clothing, robots, weird stuff.
4. Met the only female flasher on the west continents.
5. Like others, blood, gore, torture.

 

[Blow_Pop]

1) Gender

Designated female at birth but consider myself genderfluid

2) Sexual orientation

Pansexual

3) Fetishes

Rope. Bondage. Pain. Those are the three main ones. And yes the first two are similar and can be the same but aren't always. I'm too lazy to type out the entire list.

4) Freakiest thing you've ever done or had done to you

That depends on your definition of freaky. I know people who think it's freaky that I have 13 piercings and plan to get more. I know people who consider the fact I've been tied up freaky. I know people who think that me letting someone else repeatedly beat my ass black and blue as freaky. So it really depends on your viewpoint. Non consent.

5) Where do you draw the line?

Scat. Pee. Bastinado. Anything you'd consider tickling. Anything that makes me feel genuinely in fear of my life or safety. Food of any sort being put on bare skin (minus my hands presuming they are nowhere near any part of my body). Pulling on my piercings/pulling them out. Anything that leaves me maimed. Anything involving animals or children.

 

[EZola19]

Can I just say I'm surprised and proud at how mature and respectful a thread about sex is

1) Male

2) Straight

3) I guess... Asians, petite, glasses, tomboys? Good Hentai and story driven erotica. But sexy is sexy Boobs over butt. Brains over body. Voyeuristic tendencies but awkward if it's someone you know. I'm a giver so I'm good as long as the girl orgasms. I love seeing a girl orgasm. I love hearing a girl orgasm. I love the smell of a newly orgasmed vagina. Hell I'm okay with not having an orgasm as long as the girl cums. I like taking my time and prolonging the pleasure.

4)Hmm...
In a moment of horniness, I had a gay friend give me a blowjob in a friend's house. I'd never had one so why not, but I didn't cum so bleh So much teeth O_O
I love giving my girl orgasms in public. I'd rub her out on the train. I'd rub my knee against her crotch in restaurants. I did it when we camp out with other people. Stealth with consent!
I once had a handjob where I orgasmed with my mouth open and some semen got in my mouth. It makes me wonder why some people like the stuff :/
When I'm desperate, extra service massages, but only until handies and blowjobs. Scared as fuck about STDs.

5) No illegal shit. No pedophilia, no bestiality, no rape. I'm fine with watching BDSM but the thought of me giving or receiving pain is horrifying. No anal stuff, giving or receiving. Group stuff, performance anxiety I guess? No scat, no peeing. Giant breasts also are less appealing.

 

[Bocaj2000]

1) Male

2) Bi-curious

3) I usually adapt to my partner, but there are a few specific preferences: Anything with the mouth (licking, biting, oral sex, etc.), legs & butt especially with stockings & a garter belt, anything to do with female pleasure (especially squirting), and light domination mixed with light submission. Also, humor makes everything better ^w^

4) The kinkiest is that I was tied up, blindfolded, gagged, and blown. Not the best blow job, but she was into it... I think she liked it more than I did...

5) Sadomasochism. Can't do it. Can't be around it. I hate everything about it.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Sorry, but I have to ask - how in the world did that 5-way actually happen? Did somebody just stand up and say "Let's have a 5-way, guys" or did it just spontaneously happen? Also, was everyone there bi or did you have non-bi's joining in? If the latter, how did they handle having sex with people who weren't their preferred gender? Just so many questions...

Fair question. First, some background.

My spouse and I are pretty open about our sexuality. When we meet other people who are equally open, and whom we find attractive, we tend to drop into conversation that we sometimes enjoy three-ways or four-ways with friends or couples. Ideally, if the person or people we're chatting with are interested, they will let us know.

See, it's a very nice no pressure method. We let others know we like to have group sex, and then let them decide if they want to take it any farther than a conversation topic.

So, there was this friend who we had a conversation like this with. And she indicated that she might be interested in a three-way with us at some point. So far so good.

A while later, she called us up at nearly midnight. She was in a hotel room, mostly naked, with another couple she was friends with. They were about to have a three-way, but she'd remembered that she'd said she wanted to have a three-way with us, so she had asked the other couple if they were okay with a five-way. They were, so she called us up.

So we drank some coffee, grabbed some protection, and headed to the hotel.

Fun fact - years later, we're still friends with the other couple, but the friend who brought us together moved away and we hardly ever hear from her.

There are some details I've skipped over for various reasons (mostly they factor into other topics discussed elsewhere) but that's the story of how it happened. I will say, I'm not a fan of the spontaneous group sex - I find group sex goes better when it's planned better than that.

Oh and to your other question, everyone was bisexual except for the guy in the other couple. However, that typically isn't an issue, even if you have more straight people involved. One of the first and most important rules of swinging is never, ever ask anyone to do anything they aren't comfortable with. With that many people, you shouldn't have any trouble finding something fun to do that you're comfortable with without making anyone else uncomfortable.

 

[Diddy_Mao]

1) Gender
Male

2) Sexual orientation
Straight

3) Fetishes
Tattoos, Unnatural Hair Colors (Purple and Blue preffered.) I also have a predeliction for more sexually aggressive women.

4) Freakiest thing you've ever done or had done to you
My ex was really into public sex. If we went out for the evening (usually to a club)and she was wearing a skirt, I pretty much knew I was getting fucked in the lounge that night.

5) Where do you draw the line?
Butt stuff and anything involving blood or body waste.

I'll get the ball rolling:

 

[LINCARD1000]

1) Male
2) Gay
3) Muscle worship, domination (being, not doing )
4) A couple of threesomes. Not that earth-shattering but they were... interesting (and not the best way of losing your virginity, either I might add :-/ )
5) Pain. Some might get off on it, but just... no.

 

[Shill]

1| Transgender

2| Bisexual

3| Fetishes: I wish I had a full list.

4| I suppose changing genders could be freaky to certain members of society, but I really didn't mind. ^.^

5| My line is drawn at: Child Pornography, Gore Porn, Beastiality, Self-Mutilation.

 

[Madame_Lawliet]

1 - Lady...ish, I really just don't fucking know anymore.

2 - Mostly into girls with some notable exceptions.

3 - I have absolutely no idea.

4 - Nothing worth mentioning.

5 - I havn't done enough to know where my personal limits lye, but I have serious problems with sight of blood and I used to be a hardcore germaphobe so if it involves those things I'm not interested.