Elfgore said:
So, As I browsed facebook on of my redneck friends shared a video.
So yeah, the I can understand incapacitating someone after they attack you. But continuing to punch him while he's down and then his friend shouting "Yeah!" like his friend just beat up Satan is taking it too far. Did people try and break up the fight, nope. They just sat there recording it for the internet. It's disgusting.
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What is wrong with people? How can they just laugh at another human being beat up?
1. If you put just want to make comments at someone, fine, but you put hands on someone, they are within their rights to respond. And there is, hear this clearly,
no obligation for them to go through any kind of measure escalation of force. If someone comes up and puts hands on you, they mean you harm. You don't have to gradually increase force. You can respond with every bit of strength you have, because you have no idea how much harm they mean you and you should not have to gamble to find out.
2. If you've ever found yourself in an actual fight -- not a controlled situation, mind you -- it's not easy to show restraint. And that's not the fault of being some crazy, violent person. Adrenaline messes with your sense of time, for one, so you don't really know how long you've been beating that person. It also has a way of bypassing the rational part of your brain, because rational thought is
slow thought, and this is about survival (to your brain).
3. As a bystander,
do not try to be a hero and break up a fight. You don't know who has a weapon, you don't know who has a bloodborne disease, you don't know
anything about the situation. Hell, you could accidentally step in and help the aggressor -- now you're party to assault.
4. The second guy cheering things on? Yeah, we're pack animals. It's a natural tendency. I bet you've probably cheered on your favorite character in a
fictional fight once or twice. We should note instead that the second man
did not physically join. So while his demeanor did not seem restrained, his behavior was.
5. The guy filming? There's maybe a problem there. Now, he could very well have called the police. And that video could serve as evidence. Or maybe it was just someone looking for a viral video for some publicity. Who knows? So it's hard to say whether or not the guy filming is symptomatic of some cultural ill, or just one of those things that happens now because it
can (we all carry a camera now).
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At the end of the day, it's impossible for us, the viewers, to know who started the confronation... but unfortunately for the guy that took the beating, we can clearly see him following and initiating the physical confrontation. Hell, I did it once in middle school -- started a fight over something stupid with someone who was a better scrapper, ended up getting my brain-cage rattled. Learned it was a bad idea.