My. And here I though I might be risking one of those quote wars I've been seeing. You flatter me.Kameburger said:I wish there were more people like you on these forums and writing articles because I think you definitely illustrated well a view I very much share.
It really can be hard to find a good discussion on these issues, but it's hard to convince others that their feelings are wrong. And of course, feeling can't really be "wrong", but they can certainly inhibit new ideas and personal growth... which they might not be interested in in the least. Sometimes I find it best to let it be. Having racist relatives can help you accept that.Zachary Amaranth said:Ah. Fair enough. I think the bigger worry there is less saturation and more fanaticism. I dislike the idea that "you're with us, or you're against us." I am friends with a lot of people I disagree with rather passionately on some subjects, and I'd be shocked to ever meet someone I was in complete agreement with. And maybe concerned that they were planning to take over my life.She-Pudding said:-SNIP-
It just seems there's a good chunk of folk who immediately take umbrage when the subject comes up, as if bringing up women in games is somehow a personal attack on them, and that also makes it hard to have anything close to a real discussion.
And yet I have felt vilified. Maybe, this has more to do with a culmination of not just one but several medias enforcing a general message that all white men are lazy, arrogant and dumb but get pampered because of reasons, I'm not sure. And I also suspect that you can see that, sometimes in this context, men as a demographic are vilified as well, or belittled to use a better term. Basically, if my opinion is less valued in a conversation because of what I am, then it has impacted me. And it has, on occasion.Zachary Amaranth said:Except it impacts and targets you specifically in no way, shape or form.the December King said:I myself have felt vilified for things out of my control, like this exclusivity status you have mentioned.
Unless you're bothered by the notion of no longer being the only group considered by mainstream gaming, I fail to see why it would be a problem for you. Nobody is saying men are evil for being the target market. Nobody's saying you've done anything wrong by being the target market. And you even said that you think girl gamers should be catered to, so where is the problem? And that's not rhetorical or meant to condescend, I just literally do not get it.
I mean, I'm not black, but it's never particularly bothered me the thought of more black protagonists. I don't feel like I'm a problem party simply because they consider people who look like me to be a key demo, either.
Doesn't it seem rather reasonable for a history-based work like Assasin's Creed to have some level of historical credibility?VVThoughtBox said:Doesn't it seems rather foolish to expect a work of fiction like Assassins Creed to tell the truth?
The thing is, it's not really the developer's story with ACU and FC4. Heck, for a good many times, it's not the developer's real story. It's other levels of the company horning in, and screwing things up.Seldon2639 said:Yes, it's a lot more fun to be on the receiving end of entertainment properties than to be on the creative end. It's a lot easier to consume a product than to make one, and especially easy to critique products when you don't have to wrestle with issues like "time" or "resources." But that's not a good argument for trying to exercise editorial control over someone else's product. If the fun of buying someone else's product (rather than your own) is being able to be entertained by it, that's what your buying with letting that other person tell their own story.Rebel_Raven said:The problem with this notion is that doing something for yourself can kill all sense of wonder, mystery, and excitement.
You'll know when something's going to happen, why it happens, and working on it so long, you may come to hate your own project no matter why you started it.
Someone else doing it means you don't necessarily know the story they'll tell. It can preserve some of the most important points of entertainment.
Not silenced. They can certainly say "I don't like this." But at the end of the day their choices are "buy it, or don't." Trying to make a justification for why someone else's art should conform to what you think "good" art would be is kind of counter to everything we know about art.Rebel_Raven said:That's not even thinking about the other flaws like having the time to do it, the resources to do it, the creativity to do it, and so forth. Not everyone's cut out to be an artist/writer/game developer, so does that mean their voices automatically get silenced?
"I don't like it" is fine. "I don't like it, and you'll lose my business" is fine. "I don't like it and you are obliged to change it to meet some nebulous standard for what is right" is not fine.Rebel_Raven said:May as well say that to everyone that disagrees with what the government is doing, or how cars are built, or how food is cooked, or how someone argues a point, etc. etc.
I can understand the notion of encouraging people to try it, but it's not a magical cure-all.
This. The fourteen-millionth time you're told you're responsible for every single bad thing that has ever happened in the world, in all of human history, you start to feel a bit resentful about it. Especially when you've spent your entire (political) life voting to keep the people trying to deny rights to women and minorities out of power.the December King said:I think that this has less to do with the gaming population at large having a desire for diversity, and more to do with confused reactions from men who feel like they have been beaten in some contest that they were not active in, and yet appear to have been the other 'team'. I myself have felt vilified for things out of my control, like this exclusivity status you have mentioned. When someone is scoffed at and they have no control over the situation, it does get tiresome. When people achieve victories in equality, some of the language used inevitably can sound like a victory OVER white men. Since I'm not oppressing anyone in particular, as an example, such verbiage eventually weighs on one. It might be that individuals are taking it too personally, to be sure. But I can understand where that feeling might come from.Zachary Amaranth said:I'm not particularly sure why men should feel vilified or brow-beaten merely by no longer having exclusivity status or being the only group taken into consideration.
You haven't demonstrated that any of these things are actually happening in a relevant discussion.the December King said:And yet I have felt vilified. Maybe, this has more to do with a culmination of not just one but several medias enforcing a general message that all white men are lazy, arrogant and dumb but get pampered because of reasons, I'm not sure. And I also suspect that you can see that, sometimes in this context, men as a demographic are vilified as well, or belittled to use a better term. Basically, if my opinion is less valued in a conversation because of what I am, then it has impacted me. And it has, on occasion.
I'm hoping this is more or less a "growing pains" sort of thing, but it's been around for so long that it worries me.She-Pudding said:It really can be hard to find a good discussion on these issues, but it's hard to convince others that their feelings are wrong. And of course, feeling can't really be "wrong", but they can certainly inhibit new ideas and personal growth... which they might not be interested in in the least. Sometimes I find it best to let it be. Having racist relatives can help you accept that.
I will warn you my girlfriend visits this site (mostly lurks), and she's crazy enough to date me, so her depravity is unlimited. >.>But I love your take on it. Which is another thing I agree with you on. And also, I just said "I love you". Totally gunna take over your life now. Mwahaha.
I can't find a specific example of the language just now, like the 'neckbeard' or 'dudebro' type terminology that gets bantered about, but it seems like no one bats an eye at these terms being used to represent men gamers, and I'm pretty sure they are used that way (again, I have limited time at the comp just now).Zachary Amaranth said:You haven't demonstrated that any of these things are actually happening in a relevant discussion.the December King said:And yet I have felt vilified. Maybe, this has more to do with a culmination of not just one but several medias enforcing a general message that all white men are lazy, arrogant and dumb but get pampered because of reasons, I'm not sure. And I also suspect that you can see that, sometimes in this context, men as a demographic are vilified as well, or belittled to use a better term. Basically, if my opinion is less valued in a conversation because of what I am, then it has impacted me. And it has, on occasion.
Like, I get you feel that way, but I still don't get why you would feel that way. As far as I can see, these things aren't really said during these discussions, at least not here, or with any frequency. "A case for women" is not a "screw you" to men. Simply wanting more women in games doesn't slam men in any way.
What, exactly, have you lost by letting women be recognised? Or blacks, or gays, or any other group of controversy?
But if it's not being brought up here, why is it even relevant? Are you telling me you feel vilified for people asking for more playable women despite not having said neckbeard or dudebro or whatever else?the December King said:I can't find a specific example of the language just now, like the 'neckbeard' or 'dudebro' type terminology that gets bantered about, but it seems like no one bats an eye at these terms being used to represent men gamers, and I'm pretty sure they are used that way (again, I have limited time at the comp just now).
At no point do I want to repress or smother discussion or recognition to women gamers, or other peoples. I was really just looking at how the topic (women in gaming) makes me feel, is all.
Nope... Just saying I couldn't find the instances just then.Zachary Amaranth said:But if it's not being brought up here, why is it even relevant? Are you telling me you feel vilified for people asking for more playable women despite not having said neckbeard or dudebro or whatever else?the December King said:I can't find a specific example of the language just now, like the 'neckbeard' or 'dudebro' type terminology that gets bantered about, but it seems like no one bats an eye at these terms being used to represent men gamers, and I'm pretty sure they are used that way (again, I have limited time at the comp just now).
At no point do I want to repress or smother discussion or recognition to women gamers, or other peoples. I was really just looking at how the topic (women in gaming) makes me feel, is all.