The R Word

Valsharess

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You are not supposed to "Kill" "Stab" "Shoot" "Murder" "Mutilate" "Dominate" "Torture" or to be "Killed" Stabbed" Shot" "Murdered" "Mutilated" "Dominated" "Tortured" if you have a normal life. However, as a human being, you are supposed to have sex (having or not having children as a consequence of it) at some point. How do you suppose that, up until then, normal human function is going to become for a rape victim? Not to mention if that was their first contact with something sexual ever because they were raped while still being children. Just being caressed would remind you how you were brutally raped, and your body and mind would reject it. Even a kiss would be a no go.

Additionally, victims of rape might be "Killed" Stabbed" Shot" "Murdered" and "Mutilated" as well when the scene rape occurs. Furthermore, rape victims are always "Dominated" during rape. Rape is a means of "Torture" by itself (used to torture people in a variety of situations), and rape is often accompanied by other means of torture.

I would argue that rape involves more pain and it is more pervasive in your afterwards daily life than "Kill" "Stab" "Shoot" "Murder" "Mutilate" "Dominate" "Torture". Rape is not "just rape".

A victim survivor cannot seek comfort in a mother, son, partner or friend in the way "Kill" "Stab" "Shoot" "Murder" "Mutilate" "Dominate" (and the rest of people) can and would do, for example, with a gesture such as a hug, because even innocent supporting hugs are stained and painful for rape survivors. When even your loving partner, family and friends are dangerous (can cause an extreme pain) to you, what is there left for a person to live? Why do you think it is usual for rape victims to commit suicide?

As your dad, rape victims become also shells, mere shadows of the person they had been before. The shell your dad has become can at least try to seek some comfort in you. Even if it is pointless for him, he still can follow his natural instintcs, put his head on your chest, close his eyes, and try to not to think about the horrible things he went through. If your dad were a rape victim, he would not even have that.

I sincerely hope to have helped you understand.