yeah. its they possibly werent joking. thats the problem.Daveman said:What are you guys talking about? They're totally within their rights to joke about it. I mean the exact same thing happened to Sharon Osborne, right?
Saying that the Penis is an intruder directly means that it is being inserted somewhere it is not wanted. Forcibly inserting your penis into someone who does not want it is rape. So what i get from you is you arent saying sex is rape, its just the penis is domonant and therefore the man isnt raping the woman, the penis is raping the vagina. You cant have this both ways, The penis cant be the intruder and the disruptor EVEN IN YOUR MIND without sex being an intrusion. Also you ACTUALLY USED THE WORDS "serves him right" I was saying anyone who uses those words is sick in the head, you cant just say well i put it in quotes saying "someone" said it and not me, it does not change the point.Xiado said:No, sex is not about intruding, and not about rape, which you stupidly assume I think, but the fact that the penis normally initiates the sex act implies its dominance. Dominance, not superiority, not evil. Not the man's dominance either, just the dominance of the penis in sex. I also never said that the hypothetical robbed person had it coming, that was the view of a fictional character created by me in a hypothetical scenario. I also never said that woman equals good. i am saying that because woman is seen as the passive, benevolent force that receives violence, it is humorous from an objective standpoint to see its reversal.BRex21 said:This is a very sick attitude. Sex shouldnt be about a man intruding and disrupting his woman any more than getting a back rub is being innapropriately groped. Contrary to your belief a man having sex with someone is not a violent rape, consentual sex is at worst two people momentaraly providing each other with physical pleasure and often is a beautiful expression of two peoples love for each other. I also want to ask what is wrong with you if you honestly believe someone "has it coming" if they are robbed by an old woman? are you less of a victim if your mugger is less intimidating? People probably SHOULD point out you wouldnt laugh if it was the other way around. Would it be funny if a man got evicted because he couln't pay his rent after losing his money to someone with a knife?Xiado said:It's a double standard (and should always remain so) because the penis and vagina symbolize two very different things in the human psyche. The penis is the intruder, the disruptor, and it has been intruded upon and disrupted. It seems ridiculous, so we joke about it. It's like if a little old lady robs a big mugger at knifepoint and someone says "haha, serves him right", and you respond with: "you wouldn't laugh if it was the other way around". No fucking shit, because the other way is the expected and we don't laugh at ordinary horrible things, only unusual horrible things. That's why Tom & Jerry is funny, because mice aren't "supposed" to do horrible things to cats. We wouldn't laugh at a show where the cat just wins every time. You don't hate that double standard, do you?Frozen Donkey Wheel2 said:OK, I realize this is what everyone is saying already, but I'm just going to say it too. It's a good point.
Imagine if a woman filed for a divorce with her husband, and he responded by mutilating her sex organ. Then imagine, that on a TV show consisting of a group of men with a male audience all laughed about it and said "That'll teach her." These men would be looked at as horrible sexist pigs AT BEST and certainly wouldn't be able to keep their show on the air.
Now, what do you think is going to happen to these women? At most, an apology on their next show?
Good FUCK, I hate double-standards.
What you are essentially saying is that because Man=Bad and Woman=Good men simply arent entitled to basic human rights. It is a mentality that allows and even promotes the abuse of people based solely on there gender and makes me ashamed at just how popular it is in our society and across the free world.
And apparently only you get to pass judgment on what "humor" counts as "funny" or not, right? You find racism to be a non-funny kind of humor, so it's written off. Oh, but you come up with some pseudo-intellectual reason for why castration is funny, and treat this like an unassailable position.Xiado said:I was limiting my definition of humor to fit the situation. I never said blackface wasn't humor, quite the contrary. It's humor, but it's not funny because of that history. The castration is funny because it's a reversal of the age-old irrational thought. I never said that males are dominant, but that dominance is suggested by the penis itself.
Finally. I've been waiting for this tailspin of logic to come back around, as I was sure it would. That gives me another chance to explain this to you:Xiado said:In an ideal world, we could joke and laugh about our differences, but many do not find racist humor funny because it carries the history of hate with it. Humor that relies on a reversal of role, though, could not exist without these prejudices, which are based on generalizations. So this man is being represented by a generalization, because the humor does not exist if it attacks him personally.