So here this girl that I like. She doesnt seem to like me but she will always accknowlege me when I come into class. I figured if you wernt intrested in someone you ignore them. So what does this mean is she intrested in me?
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Who knows man.
If your interested then talk to her and she what happens.
If she is into you and you don't make a move soon she may lose interest.
If your interested then talk to her and she what happens.
If she is into you and you don't make a move soon she may lose interest.
The 'just ask' option; rarely a bad plan.Aylaine said:
And heck, it sounds like a good way to start a conversation no matter what.
Just talk to her. Sorry, but life's too short to be spent wallowing around in self doubt, if you talk to her and seem to connect, ask her to hang out, the worst that happens is you get turned down.
Something like this is happening to me at the moment. Except there are two girls; the one who is definitely interested in me but won't work because of distance, and the other who SEEMS interested in me but I am not sure. Only major hint she has dropped is for me to try and work in the same place as her.
Ask if she wants to hang out sometime. If she does, she does, if she doesn't, she doesn't. As long as you don't express how you feel towards her straight away she has no reason to get freaked out and not talk to you again.
Ask if she wants to hang out sometime. If she does, she does, if she doesn't, she doesn't. As long as you don't express how you feel towards her straight away she has no reason to get freaked out and not talk to you again.
I was given a weird but surprisingly effective piece of advice last year that I will pass on here.
If you want to know how someone feels about you then pretend they have something in their hair and then pretend to get it out for them. Fluff or something mind you, nothing embarrasing. If they freak out, bad sign. If they're happy about it, etc.
It sounds a lot creepier on paper than it is in practice. It's a reasonably normal yet intimate gesture. I have tried this a few times and it does kind of help. It also lets them know you're paying attention to them without putting yourself out on the line too much, I guess?
The 'just out and ask' option sounds good but I've found that it can make things awkward between you and that person if the answer is no. Even if the answer is positive it can make things tense and formal. In my experience if two people like each other then things will progress naturally on their own.
If you want to know how someone feels about you then pretend they have something in their hair and then pretend to get it out for them. Fluff or something mind you, nothing embarrasing. If they freak out, bad sign. If they're happy about it, etc.
It sounds a lot creepier on paper than it is in practice. It's a reasonably normal yet intimate gesture. I have tried this a few times and it does kind of help. It also lets them know you're paying attention to them without putting yourself out on the line too much, I guess?
The 'just out and ask' option sounds good but I've found that it can make things awkward between you and that person if the answer is no. Even if the answer is positive it can make things tense and formal. In my experience if two people like each other then things will progress naturally on their own.
Without knowing more about you, her, and the situation between the two of you, it's simply impossible to say.
How old are the two of you? That'll tell us a lot about your social dynamic.
Does she do more than just acknowledge you? If not, she might just be polite.
Do you talk to her in return? If not, she might think you're surly and/or off-putting.
We really do need a lot more information, but I will tell you this much: if you're interested in this girl, first determine on what level you're interested in her (friend? relationship? mother of your children?) and then just TALK to her. Sad but true, the art of conversation is all but lost for many people these days, and it's such a shame because that is the single best way to get to understand someone. Socialize with her! Ask her how she's doing, how her day went, relate anecdotes, and so on. Be approachable, and she just might approach you.
How old are the two of you? That'll tell us a lot about your social dynamic.
Does she do more than just acknowledge you? If not, she might just be polite.
Do you talk to her in return? If not, she might think you're surly and/or off-putting.
We really do need a lot more information, but I will tell you this much: if you're interested in this girl, first determine on what level you're interested in her (friend? relationship? mother of your children?) and then just TALK to her. Sad but true, the art of conversation is all but lost for many people these days, and it's such a shame because that is the single best way to get to understand someone. Socialize with her! Ask her how she's doing, how her day went, relate anecdotes, and so on. Be approachable, and she just might approach you.
However, with some certain women it isn't that effective. The girl I like is happy and niceand hugs practically all her friends and it's hard to actually tell the difference whether she's being her regular super friendly self or actually likes you.Hoopybees said:
Well, yeah. I think you have to take any advice with a pinch of salt. Obviously you just have to use your best judgement and decide what the right thing to do is based on the situation. This was just one thing that has worked for me. Although I have only used it on men. But the person who told me was a bloke. So I assume it transfers.Flamezdudes said:
I try to make a point of acknowledging people if I have made their aquaintence before; I'd rather keep as many social links up as possible; you never know who'll be your next party member.
So yeah, you may well just be whom she consider someone she wants to stay on the good side of, platonically.
So yeah, you may well just be whom she consider someone she wants to stay on the good side of, platonically.
Very nice reference.Erana said:
Also, nice Peace spell, but you missed a few spots...I mean, the entire town of Spielberg? Really?
But yeah, you raise a good point. Some people are just trying to be friendly, but aren't interested in that way. It's crucial to get to know someone as a friend until you have enough of a feel for them to know what their signs mean.