MysticToast said:
MasterOfWorlds said:
Also, if being gay is a choice, why would a young person choose to be part of such a looked down upon minority willingly?
People choose to be goth or furry or a number of other things and take a lot of heat for it.
I'll buy the goth thing because that's a clothing style. I won't buy into the furry thing because that's a sexual attraction. Although I suppose being attracted to goths works the same way, but I'm not sure as to what the extent of "goth" you're talking about.
Here's the thing. You're going to be attracted to whoever/whatever you're attracted to. There are people with shoe fetishes, BDSM fetishes, etc etc. The main difference being, with the possible exception of furries, is that those other attractions/fetishes/kinks don't really get much flak unless they're in the open about it, and even then that's typically around others with similar tastes.
Now, I'm not saying that I agree with the whole furry thing, but how often do you hear about furries being driven to suicide and whatnot? I'm not saying it hasn't happened, it's just not nearly as publicized. What people do in the privacy of their bedroom is their business.
Some people, like goths, emos, etc etc, choose those groups for the sole reason of standing apart from everyone else. It's something that they could change if they really wanted to, but they choose not to. Very few of them I think would come out and say, "I wouldn't be true to who I am." if they decided to change clothing styles and music and all. Of course, I can't say for sure because I'm not typically around people like that. I could do a poll on here and find out a good sample I think if you'd like.
I'm a sociology major you see, and things like this interest me. What causes people to act in certain ways and why. I'd be willing to bet that a fair percentage of the Escapist population would fall under that "To be different." or "Because my friends are." category. I doubt any gay person would say the same.