Thats what you do in a situation like that.JacobyPAX said:Called up some friends and got blackout drunk.IrishAdams said:I wouldn't have be able to keep my cool I don't think, what did you do?JacobyPAX said:I had an ex-girlfriend that decided the best way to break up with me would be to have sex with 2 guys, videotape and then send it to me. That really pissed me off.
I would have sent it to her father...JacobyPAX said:Called up some friends and got blackout drunk.IrishAdams said:I wouldn't have be able to keep my cool I don't think, what did you do?JacobyPAX said:I had an ex-girlfriend that decided the best way to break up with me would be to have sex with 2 guys, videotape and then send it to me. That really pissed me off.
Could be worse.JacobyPAX said:I had an ex-girlfriend that decided the best way to break up with me would be to have sex with 2 guys, videotape and then send it to me. That really pissed me off.
Bro, I know exactly what you mean by that second point. And for some reason girls get annoyed with me for not talking to them first. I point out what you said there, they mutter something about bitches and then all is well and good.whiteM1lk said:I don't have a girl friend currently (mostly because i'm not looking for a relationship at the moment. (and because WoW cataclysm is coming out soon) ). But the thing that annoys me at my school is that the girls are such divas and always talk like: "OMG are you actually talking to me?! Wow you're such a loser, I think i'm the most beautiful and talented and popular ***** in this whole frick'in school just because i take dance as a option.
God like half the population of my school are like that...Even the guys.
But you see, that is exactly the problem. Good on you if you like the natural appeal (I do too), but at least women are making some type of attempt, the guys on the other hand seem to have stopped caring entirely and look like curdled milk because of it. You can argue that this is "All Natural" all you want with me, but it doesn't make them attractive. The fact that you live in Southern California near Hollywood makes for a poor sample size in of itself. (and yes I do know what I'm talking about, I lived near there for a while too) Of coarse people are going to seem "beautiful". I live in Washington near the Seattle region, and I can adequately tell you that my sample size of what you may call "natural beauty", is a lot larger. To be honest, there aren't that many good looking people in the world, and I've traveled enough to know the differences and comparisons of each sex.Justank said:I'll give you the point that women are more attractive on average, but I still say the difference is not nearly as large as you make it seem. The muscles of Hollywood actors and body builders are the same idea, but that idea doesn't actually pan out in the same way. I see fewer guys who are trying to be roided out than women who are trying way too hard to fit the female Hollywood stereotypes, resulting in the fake appearance. I live about 45 minutes from Hollywood so my pool of women may be poorer for it.Shadows Inc. said:On average though, women are more attractive than men; And I know a lot of women that would agree to that as well. I will admit, that there is some significance to your argument, although be it minute, there have been occasions where there are men who seem attractive, but you must think of it this way, you said that there are a lot of girls who seem to be "fake". The muscles of Hollywood actors and body builders, are virtually the same, setting a none-reachable standard for the masses. Then you have the more "pretty-boys" who seem to be flooding the gates lately. Let me just tell you right now that the only reason either a woman or a man would think that they are attractive, is because they take a "Final Fantasy" body type of "what is it?" giving female characteristics to a male figure. (All of this is purely on a physical standpoint of coarse)
Or to just agree. I try to not do that, but sometimes arguments are pointless and I just want to get away from them.Zaik said:We will argue about something, then a few days later she will try to initiate the same argument in the exact same way.
After four or five times i just stopped arguing altogether. The only way to win is to not play at all, pretty much.
Fumbl3r, you sound awesome. Marry me.Fumbl3s said:In the space of about 4 months, I did the following:
(1) Got her flowers twice. For no reason other than that I wanted to surprise her.
(2) Spent $300 on a romantic dinner involving me turning my kitchen into a 5-star restaurant and cooking a gourmet meal.
(3) Drove her to school every morning, despite not having to get up that early for anything and her knowing I have a really hard time doing that.
(4) Gave her foot rubs on average three times a week.
(5) About once every other week I'd leave a random note of appreciation somewhere that she would find it.
(6) Helped her with house cleaning and dishes on a regular basis (we weren't living together).
(7) Dipped into $1000 of my savings on a whim to help pay for a root canal that she needed but could not afford.
(8) Watched her favorite TV shows with her (to this day she doesn't know that I HATED them).
(9) Spontaneously set up and sent her on a scavenger hunt to places that were significant to our relationship (she LOVED stuff like that!). Again, no special occasion. I did it just because I could.
(10) Remembered her birthday.
(11) Remembered her bff's birthday.
Just before we broke up, she accused me of NEVER SHOWING HER LOVE OR APPRECIATION. Instantly angry, I reminded her of all these things (and more, but it's been a while and I don't remember EVERYthing) and turned it back on her, accusing HER of never showing ME love or appreciation. Her response? Here's what she's done for me:
(1) I bought you a camera for your birthday (NOTE: with MY money, even though she had more than enough at the time and we were financially independent of each other).
(2) I let you kiss me.
(3) ... ... (silence)
Like Tristan and Victoria on Stardust.
if you didnt upthis up on the internet for revenge the is something wrong with youJacobyPAX said:I had an ex-girlfriend that decided the best way to break up with me would be to have sex with 2 guys, videotape and then send it to me. That really pissed me off.
I love my girlfriend more than anything, and I get jealous, like you, because I'm scared of losing her because she's far away. I get paranoid when she hangs out with any guy, solely because of that. Why? Because the first thing that she told me when we started being together was that she doesn't know how long her feelings will stay the same.JemothSkarii said:Well, it's really complicated and quite hard to explain, and honestly, it makes her look bad, I...*sighs* I don't know what I'm really saying...'wearer of horns' though, what is that exactly? Anyways, we love each other, and we don't get to see each other much (like....very, very little, it'll be a few years till we can move closer to each other) so as long as she doesn't take it far and I'm first, I'm okay...viper3 said:Wait-Wait-Wait. You're paranoid and protective of her...but it's fine that she kisses other guys because she loves you...The logic there if baffling. Seriously, deserve better, or is this a 'wearer of horns' scenario?JemothSkarii said:My girlfriend can easily start liking other people, and although it doesn't get really lovey and such, it gets close to it, and that bothers me somewhat. Then again, I've always been paranoid and very protective of her, so that'll probably be the end of us X_X. Well. She does like this other guy right now, but if I know her as well as I do, she won't do anything too much...mostly kisses him and such...but she loves me too much to go far with someone else, as I do her...
...Doesn't mean I want her to or don't get jealous...