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Agema

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"False facade"?

So you're saying the "tolerant" are actually intolerant people exercising an urge to enforce their will on others, merely using anti-discrimination as a moral fig-leaf?
 

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Agema said:
"False facade"?

So you're saying the "tolerant" are actually intolerant people exercising an urge to enforce their will on others, merely using anti-discrimination as a moral fig-leaf?
You pretty much hit the nail on the head.
 

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Cheeze_Pavilion said:
Agema said:
With all respect, this seems pretty much just a semantic argument.

There is another internal paradox: a person who is intolerant should have no reason to receive tolerance. It's akin to arguments that could be made about freedom. The average "free" society is against murder, but that is restricting someone's freedom to kill people, so therefore people aren't free.
Yeah, pretty much what you said. This is like calling the cops a bunch of kidnappers for arresting people who kidnap other people.
Agreed to both quoted posts. There is a latin phrase "Legum servi sumus ut liberi esse possimus", it translates to "We are slaves of the law in order that we may be able to be free.".
 

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Let me get to the heart of the pointless semantic rigmarole. Being tolerant doesn't mean you tolerate everything and everyone. No one tolerates murderers, or people who take too long at stop lights. What it does mean is that you tolerate others within reason, which is usually interpreted to include people with more or less melanin than you, people of the opposite sex, whatever. Not putting up with a racist or a sexist would fall under the same category as not being okay with someone stealing your car, because it's not something you believe should be accepted.

In a nutshell, everyone's tolerant of certain specific things, and intolerant of others, so it's folly to give a specific meaning to "tolerant" without any context.
 

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Cheeze_Pavilion said:
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What many people don't understand is that stereotyping is based on culture. Therefore, Stereotypes are usually true because that is what that culture is taught.
No, stereotyping is based on the idea the person creating the stereotype has about culture. Often that person is wrong.

Take the Zulu--the British thought they were savages that mutilated the dead because after a battle, the Zulu would cut open the chests of dead British soldiers. Turns out the Zulu believed that a soul could get trapped in a body if death was violent, and the way to free the soul was to open the chest up.

The Zulu got 'stereotyped' as savages, when really, they were extending what they believed to be proper funerary rights to their enemies as a sign of respect.

In other words, stereotypes ARE usually based on something that is true; however, they almost always involve misunderstanding that truth in some way that makes the stereotype no more accurate than a reflection in a funhouse mirror.
You, sir, have clearly yet to meet a Zulu. ;)
 

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Cheeze_Pavilion said:
Considering your reasons for holding those views, I don't see why you feel like they are missing the chance to 'learn' something from you or are doing you a disservice by rejecting your ideas without fully hearing them out: it seems that it becomes very clear very quick that they're just the same arguments we've heard before, with nothing to suggest we won't come to the same conclusion we did when we first encountered them and gave them a full hearing.
Yup but I would like to hear their reasoning. Sometimes if my arguments are not good enough, we can work on yours instead. The problem is people just "support" their ideas not really knowing much about them.

Based on my examples I know this seems pretty generic but I'm really meaning tolerance. In my country there was a case of "child molesting". Gypsies tend to marry their wives young. This one was married around 12 and the problem appeared when she had to give birth while 13. Now, this is gypsie way of life they practiced it for many centuries. Should we tolerate it or not? Government doesn't, which does not go well with "respecting other cultures". Not saying disrespecting this is bad, but people branding themselves tolerant drop their tolerance when it doesn't suit them. And still there is no problem talking with countries where a man can have multiple wives around the same age as gypsie girl.

We are tolerant of people insulting Christianity, but when someone insults Islam, it's like kicking a bee hive. And it's not only a problem of violent muslim response. I hate to see how government in Britain succumbs to muslim claims so much that it gets comical.

In Germany there are places where police cannot enter. Some government communal flats inhabited by scum (mostly criminals, far left punks). Yet noone does anything about it. In the meantime, some bald idiot beat someone and we have a nation wide skinhead hunt. How can goverment tolerate one group while both should be delt with.

I just want to show that people are tolerant when it suits them, just masking their own agendas and prejeduces.

Now I can see you wrote about many more things but It's been an entire day for me filled with sitting in front of the computer playing working and studying and being on heavy antibiotics I have a hard time mounting up some serious arguments and not falling into trap of rephrasing my former statements. I shall try later or when I'll get strength.
 

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Cheeze_Pavilion said:
Bad analogy--this is more like a kidnapper demanding he not be sent to jail because people have a right to liberty.
In point of fact, my analogy is perfect. Criticizing YOUR hypocrisy on YOUR philosophy is not incumbent on MY philosophy in any way, shape or form. Either you are applying it consistently or you are not. (all pronouns used in this paragraph are for the exclusive purpose of differentiating between two divergent viewpoints and should in no way be construed to implicate any specific person's philosophy)

By contrast, your analogy falls down in that it ascribes to the kidnapper the same philosophy: that he thinks he as a person has a right to liberty. He is acting inconsistently with his own philosophy. That analogy assumes both men share the same philosophy and one is applying it with a morally superior inconsistency. My point is that there does not need to be an agreement on philosophy in order to see that the other person is not applying it consistently.

Don't confuse an accusation of hypocrisy with a demand to be treated by rules you do not acknowledge.
 

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Actually, Democrats and states that tend to vote Democratic have higher average incomes and greater proportions of "the rich", e.g. New England.
 

Agema

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TheSchaef said:
An intolerant person has no logically consistent reason to demand tolerance
One does not have to demand treatment inconsistent with one's philosophy in order to point out that someone else's treatment is inconsistent with their own philosophy. I don't have to become a vegetarian to point out that you're a hypocrite if you're a vegetarian who takes meat sauce on his spaghetti.
TheSchaef said:
...etc

Don't confuse an accusation of hypocrisy with a demand to be treated by rules you do not acknowledge.
This is all an irrelevant sideshow.

If you'd followed from the OP, you'd see I am making a point that an argument made (tolerant people are intolerant) was semantic in nature, and that the paradox applies more widely. As such it's all a nice logical game, but it's not necessarily much use at all resolving real life situations of how to deal with bigots.

cieply said:
I just want to show that people are tolerant when it suits them, just masking their own agendas and prejeduces.
That's very cynical. I'm not sure why you're intent on trying to show the worst in people, whether that's how you feel about your fellow men or whether it's part of an ideological structure. At any rate, I think it is overlooking a more obvious probability: that goodness, consideration, altruism etc. are at least as strong in humanity as hate, greed, desire for power etc. are.
 

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cieply said:
I don't want to say that you should be tolerant. I just wanted to show that all that self-righteousness is just as good as it was in any other system.
Member of North American Man-Boy Love Association: All these men wanted was love from a young boy. There is nothing wrong with love. Why are we discriminated against? The blacks, the gays, they all have exemptions, well why not us?
Kyle: Dude, you have *sex* with *children*.
Stan: Yeah, you know, we believe in equality for everybody, and tolerance, and all that gay stuff, but dude, fuck you.
Kyle: Seriously.

Do you see what I'm getting at here? Just because you do something different and offensive to a societal norm does not automatically grant you a free pass on the basis of "Political Correctness Gone Mad".
 

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Armitage Shanks said:
cieply said:
I don't want to say that you should be tolerant. I just wanted to show that all that self-righteousness is just as good as it was in any other system.
Member of North American Man-Boy Love Association: All these men wanted was love from a young boy. There is nothing wrong with love. Why are we discriminated against? The blacks, the gays, they all have exemptions, well why not us?
Kyle: Dude, you have *sex* with *children*.
Stan: Yeah, you know, we believe in equality for everybody, and tolerance, and all that gay stuff, but dude, fuck you.
Kyle: Seriously.

Do you see what I'm getting at here? Just because you do something different and offensive to a societal norm does not automatically grant you a free pass on the basis of "Political Correctness Gone Mad".
Otherwise known as the 'common sense' effect.
 

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South Park nailed tolerance, you have to put up with it, says nothing about liking it.

I feel your pain, I tolerate a lot of things, including customers saying my stupid country has stupid laws, almost shouted he should go back to where-ever shit hole he came from, but I'd lose my job doing that, aaaaah Britain, how the Greatness is gone.
 

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Agema said:
This is all an irrelevant sideshow.
It's not irrelevant to the people who are having their entirely reasonable viewpoints shouted down under the guise of Tolerance and Political Correctness.

If you'd followed from the OP, you'd see I am making a point that an argument made (tolerant people are intolerant) was semantic in nature, and that the paradox applies more widely.
I have been. If you, on the other hand, had followed my thoughts from the OP, you'd see both his point and mine are that the extremes are being used to define the middle: the kind of uncivil behavior, condescension and rudeness that supposedly are a necessary evil for "dealing with bigots" has grown beyond a necessary evil into a cathartic, even vindictive experience, and has grown beyond the dangerously irrational margins into people with reasonable but divergent viewpoints. This kind of behavior poisons the well and destroys rational discourse in this country, and it's disgusting; even more so because it drags reasonable people in to defend it on the premise that the margins can't be left to run rampant and wreak havoc.

Cheeze_Pavilion said:
That's all true, but that doesn't apply to the situation described in the post you were responding to.
The reason it "doesn't apply" is because the premise is wrong to begin with. This is not a case of the intolerant *demanding* tolerance because of his own philosophy, but noting a lack of tolerance inconsistent with the *other's* philosophy. "What we hold to be right, and good, and true IS right and good and true for all men. Otherwise we're just another robber tribe."

Right--and my point is that, while that is true, that is not the situation the person you were responding to was describing.
Because the situation he's describing is not reflective of the reality of the problem.

Don't confuse an accusation of hypocrisy with a demand to be treated by rules you do not acknowledge.
Funny--I was going to say the same thing to you ;-D
I am not doing this at all. I in fact seem to be the only one making it a point to *separate* the two.
 

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cieply said:
When I read the news or look around, I can't stand all this talking about tolerance and people being intolerant.
What we have today is just another world view branded as "tolerance" but in fact not being much more tolerant than any other in history.

If you have no problems with gay people or black people, you are NOT tolerant. You simply like them and you don?t have to be tolerant.

If I would say "niggers are stupid" or "homosexuality is a mental sickness" I would be called an intolerant f**k and perma banned. This is just a sign of intolerance, because we don't tolerate people with other opinions. Today natural response is just "omg you so racist" and not "why do you think that". Yes, "stupid niggers" would probably mean I'm an idiot, but that's what tolerance is about, coping with world views we do not approve. If we agree with something, we do not have to tolerate it.

Anyway, my point is it's the same old game, just instead op people shouting "Jews!" we have people shouting "racists!" and your average citizen is as unwilling to tolerate beliefs of others as he was 100 years ago.
You have a point, but your point is slightly misguided, in my opinion. I agree that tolerance can be used as a weapon, because domineering people sometimes end up going with the general moral persuasion, i.e. A person may be an utter, controlling bully, but they could also be a police officer. They intimidate, and crush, but they enforce the law etc.

There's a place for everything and everyone in this world, and I would rather that "tolerance" against people who are, by definition, intolerant of others who are different, was the new mob-control, than "discrimination".

I'd rather the KKK were lynching each other than the KKK lynching everyone else, to use an extreme analogy.
[sup]DISCLAIMER: I do not support violence in any shape or form except self defense, the above is an extreme example to illustrate my point.[/sup]
 
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L33tsauce_Marty said:
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Tolerance for smokers would be a start.
You guys smell funny, but it's ok because you don't stink up my house. There is my tolerance.
*hasn't smoked for 4 months now, but still remembers the near-apartheid against them*
 

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/epicfacepalm

Unfortunately, tolerance is a compounding idea, so it's easiest and makes the most sense to draw the line at the first occurrence.
 

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To me, equal rights = equal responsiblities.
If someone is disrespectful of others for how they are born, why should I respect them.
I'll take being fair over being tolerant.