1) What have your dating experiences been like, both before and after transition? Like, how do you approach the dilemma of ?Do I tell this person who likes me that I was born a different sex??
2) Are you offended by people who are fetishistically attracted to pre-op trans women, because many of them never even wanted the penis in the first place and/or are planning to do away with it in surgery?
3) Are you offended by the character ?Buffalo Bill? in
Silence of the Lambs?
4) Are people able to tell what sex you were born as? If so, what have been their reactions (e.g. family, friends, strangers)?
5) How masculine or feminine would you say you are, in regards to your identified sex? As in, if you?re a trans woman, do you have any tomboyish tendencies? And, if you do, do you tend to hide it in order to appear more feminine?
6) Why is the term ?sex change? considered offensive now? Is it just political correctness, or is it that the medical term is technically ?sex reassignment surgery??
7) How do you feel about the term ?trap?, both derogatorily (although apparently used less than ?tranny?) and in porn circles?
8) Do you wish you transitioned earlier or later (as I?ve heard that transitioning before puberty allows you to have a more ?natural? puberty akin to your preferred gender, as opposed to going through your opposite-gender puberty and then having to ?alter? it from that foundation)?
9) Do you know what percentage of the population (in your area and/or worldwide) are transgender?
10) Have you ever watched the anime
Wandering Son? What did you think about it?
11) What are your experiences when going to public toilets? Does anyone raise an eyebrow when you walk into what they might deem as the ?wrong one?, or does no-one take any notice?
12) Do you keep pictures of back when you looked like your birth sex? If so, do you ever look back on them? Do you have positive or negative feelings on that ?past life??
TheDoctor455 said:
Also, I'm an asexual with no gender identity whatsoever, so if anyone wanted to ask me a quick question about that, I'd be glad to answer that.
1) What's your birth sex?
2) How do people react to you at first sight?
3) How do you conduct yourself in certain scenarios where gender
does play a part (e.g. prom, where the boys dress in suits and the girls dress in...well, dresses)?
4) Do you switch between "male" and "female" clothing, depending on your mood or the occasion?
5) What have your dating experiences (if any; that's not intended to be rude, but I've heard that there are some asexuals that still have romantic feelings towards others, or engage in sexual activity for the other person, at least)?