Eacaraxe said:
Saying "getting men to acknowledge the problem at all is the trouble!" is effectively meaningless, because there are two groups of men in this regard. There are those who already do listen, and there are those who will never listen. Arguing the former category should do more to marginalize the latter is fine, but patronizing the former category -- whose agreement is not guaranteed by simply having engaged in speech -- is not helpful.
While I understand what you're getting at, you've set up a false dichotomy. There are not just two camps of men, first of all. After all, how do you think the "already listen" camp got people in the first place? There were people in the "not paying attention" or "didn't see the big deal" camp, and something or someone got their attention and showed them the big deal.
But furthermore, an awareness campaign like this also serves to help
women better understand the problem. Don't make the mistake of thinking this campaign is directed at men. It's directed at a
problem. That problem is the treatment of female characters in relation to male characters. And there are plenty of women that contribute to the problem, too. The "men" being targeted by these arguments are the
fictional ones (and, to a certain degree, the real ones behind the writing).
And yet another group this kind of thing helps are those people who
want to fight the problem, but aren't sure how to express it. It helps give shape (and information) to their own understanding, thus making them better at supporting their chosen cause.
You've taken the basic approach that everyone already believes what they're going to believe. That's problematic, because no one is
born racist or Christian or agnostic or speaking French or
countless other learned behaviors. And if it can be learned, it can be unlearned and corrected. Otherwise, there's no point in your reply to my post -- after all, if you really believed what you're saying, you'd think I already believe what I'm going to believe, right?
I think you've touched on one of the big issues, though -- a lot of people develop problems with campaigns like this because they assume
they are the target audience... or rather, some villainized version of themselves, as perceived by the speaker. We have a tendency to
seek out offense, and then take it gladly.