Use_Imagination_here said:
Men loving their wives and children and wanting to protect them has more to do with love, attachment and empathy towards your family than some bullshit societal pressure for christs sake.
Yes there's the overarching theme of patriarchy but the motivation stems primarily from empathy.
Perhaps, but it stems from only
one specific type of empathy. We could empathize with a mother, too, but we rarely get one as a playable character. We could empathize with a father trying to save his son, but even that oddly doesn't show up much (it's probably assumed that a son should be capable of saving himself).
This particularly "empathetic trigger" is designed, from the ground up, with men in mind. The playable character is nearly always -- not "very often," not "most of the time, but
nearly always -- male, and the object of his power fantasy almost exclusively female.
We're not talking about "empathy toward one's family." We're talking about "a FATHER'S desire to save the WOMEN in his keeping." If we were shown families from many different angles on a consistent basis, your original argument could hold water. Reality does not bear this out.