Two gay men kicked out of a pub for kissing in public

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Noelveiga said:
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I am not arguing that people "shouldn't be discriminated against out of the good of our collective hearts,"* I am arguing that they inherently aren't discriminated against out of the goodness of our collective hearts, regardless of what is preferrable. If the majority decide to elect a government that abolishes protection for gays, they are screwed. Protection inherently comes from the goodness of the majority, regardless of whether or not it is preferrable. Ironically, your claim that the majority can beat up the government whenever they want simply supports that conclusion.

*Though I do feel discrimination is wrong, and I support minority rights, and treating homosexuals equally
No, that's... that doesn't make any sense at all. Are you doing this on purpose?

That's what constitutions are for. They outline the basic set of rights and principles (i.e. discrimination is not valid) and then they heavily protect themselves against change so that you can have a majority within the system but you still can't unilaterally change the concept that discrimination is banned.
Constitutional laws can be abolished at will, if the Majority demands it. In the US, there was an amendment outlawing liquor, the 18th amendment. It was repealed. Granted, that has nothing to do with discrimination against minorities, I simply quoted that to demonstrate that constitutions can be altered, not just by adding laws, but by taking them away.

You have stated that laws which inhibit the abilities of the majority are necessary. If the majority chose to abolish constitutional laws, they could easily do so.

Keep in mind, I never, at any point in time, argued against having laws that prevent bar owners from being able to throw out gays or discriminate against people. I pointed out that trying to inhibit the Majority, rather than random bigots, is a pointless task in a Democracy.

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And I didn't claim that the majority can beat up the government at will, I claimed that weapon ownership is often worked around in revolts and revolutions. How are both things linked at all? Also, you brought that up, not me.
Actually, you explicitly said that the majority outnumbered the government so much that even with their bare hands they would still win.

You are assuming this is an attempt to justify gun ownership. Owning fully automatic weapons has been illegal in the United States since the 1960's. Handguns are primarily useful for self defense against wild animals and criminals.
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I don't even know what that means. Or what you're trying to state or defend with the whole argument about whether or not civilian revolts can succeed.
Civilian revolts can succeed. You earlier argued that it was impossible for a well armed and organized military to oppress the majority, literally stating that Monarchies inherently depend on the support of the majority, due to the difference in raw numbers. I simply pointed out it is not impossible for well armed and organized militaries to oppress the average person.

You have proven an invading army can be defeated. You have not proven that it is impossible for a government to control a country where the majority are opposed to the government, which was your earlier assertion. You asserted that Monarchies pretty much always have support of the Majority, and without this they collapse. The fact that imperialism has succeeded many times in the past- sometimes for centuries- shows this is not true.
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No, it shows that it's not a binary choice. It's not either oppression is impossible at all or oppression has never been defeated. There have been instances of civilian revolts in which people were willing to die to kick out a better equipped group of people and instances in which they weren't. Different situations result in different outcomes. Clearly threatening people with death is a very effective way of maintaining oppression, but it's not undefeatable. Genocide is tough if you're in numerical inferiority.
I never stated it was a binary choice. By stating that Monarchies inherently have the support of the majority, as they are doomed to be destroyed if they do not have it, you however, inherently did imply that same binary nature.

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Maybe if you made a point I could figure out what I'm supposed to be arguing against here and we'd stop this nonsense. Care to try?
I have been trying.

Actually, it comes from the fact that the Romans had a heavily sex saturated culture, and were used to taking what they wanted from others by force.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ancient_Rome#Art.2C_music_and_literature
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No, wait, no. What?

First, stop taking your worldview from Wikipedia, it's clearly not working out for you.

Second, what? You live in an age of free porn over the Internet. That's a throwaway line in a Wikipedia entry that refers to the finding of sex depiction from some periods of Roman times. See how that doesn't make anybody a rapist culture (but if it made only one of them a rapist culture it would totally be ours)?

Also, WTF is that about "used to taking what they wanted from others by force"? They were a democracy for 500 years. Our legal system to prevent people from taking shit from other people is still based on theirs. They held property almost as highly as we do. If there is one ancient culture that was not about "taking what they wanted from others by force" that was Rome.

And again, why the fuck are we arguing this? What is the point other than you going against anything anybody says even when it is a non sequitur?
I apologize, I meant other cultures. I apologize for failing to clarify. My point was they were heavily imperialistic, and their culture had a long history of attacking and oppressing other civilations. That, combined with their heavy emphasis on sex, is part of why they have a strong association with rape.
 

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Unless this bar also has a strict no heterosexual kissing rule which is enforced, then kicking out two guys for it is plain discrimination.
Also im sure if it were 2 hot lesbians they wouldnt have got kicked out
My thoughts exactly :) It was a real dick move. Somehow in the minds of men lesbians=hot, gay men=not. Although they are technically the same thing. But yeah as John Marcone mentioned earlier there are too many things into play here.
 

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He can kick anyone out, it's his bar, just like I can kick anyone I want out of my house.
Do you think that right should apply to business owners who don't want to serve blacks?

After all, it is their business. Why should they have to serve blacks if they don't want to?

That is essentially the same chain of thought behind allowing sexuality based discrimination
Yes, I do. Don't get me wrong, I hate racism, homophobia, etc. of all kinds. But if he, as the owner, does not want to serve certain customers, that's his choice and he should be allowed.

It comes down to enforcing your morals on someone else (which is wrong), versus allowing free will and trusting people not to be dicks.
In that case, what you're saying actually makes a lot of sense. Most people I come across who think that discriminating against homosexuals should be legal still say that racial discrimination is right to be outlawed. I still disagree with you, but you have consistency in your beliefs, so I can respect them.
 

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Noelveiga said:
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Constitutional laws can be abolished at will, if the Majority demands it. In the US, there was an amendment outlawing liquor, the 18th amendment. It was repealed. Granted, that has nothing to do with discrimination against minorities, I simply quoted that to demonstrate that constitutions can be altered, not just by adding laws, but by taking them away.

You have stated that laws which inhibit the abilities of the majority are necessary. If the majority chose to abolish constitutional laws, they could easily do so.
No, the majority can only overturn constitutional precepts when they have an extremely qualified quorum which is deliberately calculated to never be composed of a single party under normal circumstances, meaning that constitutional changes can't happen with a large scale agreement across majority and minority groups. Which is one of the devices in place to curb majority rule and my point all along.

Keep in mind, I never, at any point in time, argued against having laws that prevent bar owners from being able to throw out gays or discriminate against people. I pointed out that trying to inhibit the Majority, rather than random bigots, is a pointless task in a Democracy.
But it's not! It's the whole point of the entire legal and electoral system! It works! It's been working for ages, which is the only reasons we have any rights left! How do you not see this! I'm running out of exclamation marks here!

Actually, you explicitly said that the majority outnumbered the government so much that even with their bare hands they would still win.
No. You make it sound like a crazy person is saying that the moment 51% of the population is angry they can just go and win a punching brawl against the other 49%. What I said, in much more cogent and less insane terms, is that when a minority group in power strongly oppresses the entire population a revolt is not heavily dependant on being equally armed and organized as the government they seek to overthrow. And I only said this after you grossly misinterpreted my original point about kings needing the support of nobility, as made obvious in your next statement:

Civilian revolts can succeed. You earlier argued that it was impossible for a well armed and organized military to oppress the majority, literally stating that Monarchies inherently depend on the support of the majority, due to the difference in raw numbers. I simply pointed out it is not impossible for well armed and organized militaries to oppress the average person.
Because that's not at all what I stated. I said that kings still needed the support of the network of noblemen and knights that provided him with armies and funding. I did this because you claimed that monarchy was some sort of 1984-like system in which a single person somehow managed to retain the loyalty of a huge army and rule on his own an entire country. I merely pointed out that political support was a thing before democracy and many kings were dethroned when a sizable chunk of their own nobility got positioned against them, violently or not.

You, on the other hand, took that notion and ran with it all the way to crazyland into some ridiculous diatribe about armies and roman rapists and who knows what else.

I never stated it was a binary choice. By stating that Monarchies inherently have the support of the majority, as they are doomed to be destroyed if they do not have it, you however, inherently did imply that same binary nature.
No I didn't, see above. Also stop latching on to throwaway comments you semi-deliberately misunderstand to try to wring any sort of dialectical victory out of this. It is both pointless and annoying.

I apologize, I meant other cultures. I apologize for failing to clarify. My point was they were heavily imperialistic, and their culture had a long history of attacking and oppressing other civilations. That, combined with their heavy emphasis on sex, is part of why they have a strong association with rape.
They... don't have a strong association with rape. I've studied roman history quite a bit and I've never heard of a strong association with rape. They have a strong (and somewhat unwarranted) association with slavery, but rape? Not so much. It was a crime then, as far as I know, outside of wartime. In wartime it was frequent, but not more common than in other cultures of the time. I guess the common mistranslation of the latin word "rapere", which meant "to kidnap" rather than "to rape" might have originated that, if it's even a thing, as they would at times abduct and marry the women of the people they conquered, but you could make the case that this was no more forced than any other arranged marriage at the time. In fact, roman soldiers moving to the places they conquered and starting a family seems to have been a relatively frequent thing (getting some land in the conquered area was probably a common reward) and it certainly helped integration between romans and their conquered.

The same goes for "attacking and oppressing" other cultures. Again, no more than the rest. They just did it more successfully, and most historians would say that they were better at being vicious in war but remarkably open to negotiation. They treated conquered cultures pretty well and allowed a high degree of autonomy, which is why they could keep control of a larger area: less need to revolt.

I really don't know where you're getting all that stuff from. I guess the fact that romans bothered to write down what they did, including their wartime exploits might help consider them more brutal or... eh... rapist than other cultures, but they really weren't.
A) A Quorum is a minimum number of representatives required to conduct a Parliment's or Congresses' bussiness. According to Robert's Rules of Order Newly Revised, Tenth Edition, the current edition of Robert's Rules of Order, the "requirement for a quorum is protection against totally unrepresentative action in the name of the body by an unduly small number of persons."

It is actually designed to prevent a minority from controlling the majority, not to prevent the majority from controlling people. Quorum restrictions do not prevent the Majority from doing anything. Imagine, for a second, that 90% of the people wanted to abolish gay rights. Would Quorum requirements stop them? No.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quorum

Moreover, consitutional changes can pretty much only happen with large scale agreement across both major and minor parties, as opposed to what you said, which is that they can't. The majority can easily get agreement across multiple parties.

B) I stated that it is well organized and armed people who give Kings their power, not the consent of the majority. My statement inherently considered and included the nobles and their militaries. If you think that I was arguing Kings do not need a group of well organized and armed people to support them, you came to the opposite conclusion of what I explicitly stated.
 

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Its very simple. A bar is where you MEET people. Once you've met them, find a damn room. Doesn't matter if your gay or not. If I was the bar owner I'd have told them not to come back if they couldn't present themselves properly in public. Its common courtesy to other bar patrons, it has nothing to do with orientation.
 

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Noelveiga said:
RelexCryo said:
Noelveiga said:
RelexCryo said:
A) A Quorum is a minimum number of representatives required to conduct a Parliment's or Congresses' bussiness. According to Robert's Rules of Order Newly Revised, Tenth Edition, the current edition of Robert's Rules of Order, the "requirement for a quorum is protection against totally unrepresentative action in the name of the body by an unduly small number of persons."

It is actually designed to prevent a minority from controlling the majority, not to prevent the majority from controlling people. Quorum restrictions do not prevent the Majority from doing anything. Imagine, for a second, that 90% of the people wanted to abolish gay rights. Would Quorum requirements stop them? No.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quorum

Moreover, consitutional changes can pretty much only happen with large scale agreement across both major and minor parties, as opposed to what you said, which is that they can't. The majority can easily get agreement across multiple parties.

B) I stated that it is well organized and armed people who give Kings their power, not the consent of the majority. My statement inherently considered and included the nobles and their militaries. If you think that I was arguing Kings do not need a group of well organized and armed people to support them, you came to the opposite conclusion of what I explicitly stated.
Oh, for the love of fuck. Quorum, at least in the original latin has a second meaning: "proportion of votes required to be able to pass a piece of legislation versus the total".

Sure, it means "minumum number of the entire body that needs to be present to be able to take a vote", too, but I was going for the definition that you didn't find in your two minute google run. I'm not aware of whether this second definition even exists in English, but I can guarantee it's a technical term in latin and it definitely applies in my mother language (here, dictionary entry, babelfish it: http://buscon.rae.es/draeI/SrvltConsulta?TIPO_BUS=3&LEMA=quorum ).

On B) if you specifically stated that then you stated in the following way: "I disagree with you. I will now proceed to present the point you just made as if it were a disagreement with you. I hope you are not confused by this."
On B) I am not presenting the point you just made as if it were a dissagreement with you. Let me see if I can get the precise words you used... Oh yes, here we go. "Majorities already ruled before democracy. Kings were added and removed through violent and nonviolent conflict based on the availability of majoritarian support."

Kings were not added and removed through Majoritarian support, they were added and removed through Aristocratic support. The distinction is that a rule by nobility is not the same as a rule by Majority. I hope you weren't trying to argue that a majority vote of Nobles was rule by Majority.

A) The link you provided?

1. M. The number of individuals required for a deliberative body to take certain agreements.

2. m. Proporción de votos favorables para que haya acuerdo.

2. M. Proportion of favorable votes for there to be agreement.


Based on definition number 2: If you are saying that it prevents a slight majority from doing whatever they want, then yes, I would agree that supports your point. But if the majority elected politicians who decide to outlaw something even when they don't meet the requirements of the Quorum, and the majority of the military and the police sided with them, it would still effectively be law, regardless of the inherent illegality of their actions.

The majority vote in a democracy controls who runs the military, and who writes the laws. If those individuals decide to ignore the quorum, there is nothing really stopping them.

Human rights in a democracy partially rest on the willingness of the Majority to respect the quorum requirements. The majority is only bound by the quorum as long as they choose to be. Meaning the entire system ultimately rests on their willingness to do the right thing.
 

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Well serves em right for gaying up the place xD

At the end of the day the owner has the right to throw anyone out of thier own property, Pubs are exactly the same. THEY DONT NEED A REASON!!!
 

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OT: There's no way we can call this anti-gay since there's no way to tell how the landlord/pub owner guy would have reacted if a straight couple were doing the same. We just don't know, so we can't assume "oh he's just a homophobic old bastard". Maybe the guy just doesn't like seeing people make out in his pub. Or maybe he received enough complaints from other people in there, that he had to act on it and get the couple the hell out of the place.

I want to be outraged at this, but calling homophobia on it seems a little premature.
Even if his customers complained, if he acted differently for gays and straights it'd still be illegal discrimination. Either everyone can kiss, or no one can. The customers don't get to pick and choose who can and can't anymore than the pub owner.
 

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will1182 said:
2012 Wont Happen said:
will1182 said:
2012 Wont Happen said:
will1182 said:
He can kick anyone out, it's his bar, just like I can kick anyone I want out of my house.
Do you think that right should apply to business owners who don't want to serve blacks?

After all, it is their business. Why should they have to serve blacks if they don't want to?

That is essentially the same chain of thought behind allowing sexuality based discrimination
Yes, I do. Don't get me wrong, I hate racism, homophobia, etc. of all kinds. But if he, as the owner, does not want to serve certain customers, that's his choice and he should be allowed.

It comes down to enforcing your morals on someone else (which is wrong), versus allowing free will and trusting people not to be dicks.
In that case, what you're saying actually makes a lot of sense. Most people I come across who think that discriminating against homosexuals should be legal still say that racial discrimination is right to be outlawed. I still disagree with you, but you have consistency in your beliefs, so I can respect them.
Wow, I was expecting an angry wall of text. Thank you for being understanding.
I try to be understanding of any belief showing logical consistency. Its only the people who are inconsistent who really irritate me.
 
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I use the term allegedly because I do know that witness statements were taken by the police as someone in the that pub put their hands on one of the men, with a view to physically ejecting him which isn't strictly legal. It is my instinct to switch to legalese in that sort of case (I don't believe there were any charges, but what happened is on record now).
Now that's common assault, that's perfectly OK to charge against the law.
The kiss in worked because the pub closed its doors at 3pm and, if it was still shut at 9:30 probably did not open for the rest of the day. So, half a days takings lost - on a Friday in a busy city in the middle of what is London's "gay village". Couple of grand then, at least. Good. Might be another kiss in during the week, hope they shut their doors again.
The kiss in happened because they went straight to the press who LOVE this sort of thing.

And I don't disagree that it is their rules. But those rules have to be blind.
The problem with having blind rules is that common sense isn't allowed to be used.

Let's say the publican saw that a group of people were getting very aggravated over the kissing and were making moves to "sort them out". It might not be strictly legal to get the guys out, but it'd save them getting injured.

Gay couple I know were strolling along the river near where I live. Both were approached by a group of thugs. The milder one of the two was just pushed in the river. The more aggressive one ended up in hospital through the beating delivered.

This didn't even get in the papers. Two guys getting thrown out of a pub did.

Before we start on making special dispensations for equality, don't you think we should be making the streets safer for them to walk in public? Show trials like this take away from the plight that many gay men suffer, in order to push the "shame" of someone just asking them not to be a nuisance in public.

My friend has since recovered from the beatings. No one was charged as the result.
 

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PinochetIsMyBro said:
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So, it is against the law. Only there are loopholes.
Unfortunately. These laws really need to be repealed. A bunch of fascist crap that forces everyone to play 'lets pretend.'
I completely disagree. You should not be able to force your insecurities and prejudices onto me.
You shouldn't be able to force your personal sense of morality on others.
Then we are in complete agreement.
No, we aren't. I think you're confused. Let me try to make it simple for you.

You = in favor of forcing your warped sense of morality on other people, and forcing owners of private property and businesses to do what YOU think they should do
Me = in favor of letting people do what they want to do with their property, because it's THEIR property and/or business, not mine

Better?
I disagree. There is nothing more to be said.
 

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There was a case kinda similar to this. A gay couple were refused a double room in a hotel because they were gay, which sparked an uproar about the treatment of homosexuals and the hotel owners had to cough up £3,600. It's disgusting that people are still sickened by homosexuals. Homosexuality isn't anything new! Get used to it! I'm straight and have gay friends and I'm not sickened by any affection they show each other, why should anyone else be?
 

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Noelveiga said:
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On B) I am not presenting the point you just made as if it were a dissagreement with you. Let me see if I can get the precise words you used... Oh yes, here we go. "Majorities already ruled before democracy. Kings were added and removed through violent and nonviolent conflict based on the availability of majoritarian support."

Kings were not added and removed through Majoritarian support, they were added and removed through Aristocratic support. The distinction is that a rule by nobility is not the same as a rule by Majority. I hope you weren't trying to argue that a majority vote of Nobles was rule by Majority.
I said "the availability of majoritarian support", but which I mean "armed support under the auspices of a section of nobility, which controlled it as they saw fit despite official attribution of all property directly to the king, which was ultimately fictitious".

The reason I didn't say it like that the first time is that it was a thowaway line in the middle of a huge ass argument that you've somehow singled out and chosen to obsessively argue about despite being four degrees or so removed from the topic, grasping at straws for the slightlest shadow of something you can consider a win out of this whole day-long nonsensical argument despite having failed to make a single valid point throughout the entire thing.

A) The link you provided?

1. M. The number of individuals required for a deliberative body to take certain agreements.

2. m. Proporción de votos favorables para que haya acuerdo.

2. M. Proportion of favorable votes for there to be agreement.


Based on definition number 2: If you are saying that it prevents a slight majority from doing whatever they want, then yes, I would agree that supports your point. But if the majority elected politicians who decide to outlaw something even when they don't meet the requirements of the Quorum, and the majority of the military and the police sided with them, it would still effectively be law, regardless of the inherent illegality of their actions.

The majority vote in a democracy controls who runs the military, and who writes the laws. If those individuals decide to ignore the quorum, there is nothing really stopping them.

Human rights in a democracy partially rest on the willingness of the Majority to respect the quorum requirements. The majority is only bound by the quorum as long as they choose to be. Meaning the entire system ultimately rests on their willingness to do the right thing.
How idiotic is that argument? Seriously, OF COURSE if everybody and their mother side with passing something as law they will pass something as law. That doesn't preclude democracy. Constitutions were written and approved by a qualified majority in the first place. If they are democratic constitutions, and there constitutions that very much aren't democratic, they will also contain clauses to protect minorities from abuse. None of which has anything to do with the fact that constitutions can be changed by a sufficient majority.

Really, for the sanity of us both, don't you see that? It's not an argument in which if what I say isn't true in a reduction to absurdity it stops being true at all. That's not how it works. My position doesn't stop being true if a 100% majority of people, or even a 99.9% majority of people or even a 75% majority of people can change every law of the land down to the Constitution. Democratic constitutions, despite this, are still based on the protection of the right to be different of people that disagree or do not share the traits of the majority.

Which you denied.

Wrongly.

And then we argued for hours about nitpicky stuff because you're an opinionated little person that can't back off from an argument without at least taking away the consolation prize and I'm a stubborn old man that won't let that happen because I'm fed up with stupid online forum arguments.
Modern Democractic constitutions are still based on the protection of the right to be different, to disagree or not share the traits of the majority. I agree with this statement. I stated that trying to limit the majority is ultimately pointless, because they have the power to do what they like.

My perspective is this: Rights of minorities must be protected, but trying to bind or impede the majority is inherently pointless. They can ultimately do what they want, so their obedience of these laws is based on their own willingness to obey them.

That said, I am willing to agree that the issues I objected to were minor nitpicks of phrasing, rather than serious concerns. We have argued over things like Democracy vs. Modern Democracy, and over the use of Majority support to describe rule by Aristocracy- this has largely been a debate on semantics, and that is largely pointless, so I apologize for wasting your time.
 

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I remember reading about this in the paper, and I thought it was just disgraceful that the pub owners would do something like that.
 

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So many people buying this at face value...and all because its about two gay guys. There really is something quite sad about this.