Um... mixed signals

[Arcade_Fire]

So I realize that this is probably the last place in the world any kind of rational person would turn for advice on women, but the particular case that is currently baffling me has also stump all of my friends/people I would normally turn too for advice so...

Here's the scenario: I'm at a party with this girl I'm kind of into, and at a completely random point during the nigh she turns to me, says "I like you as a friend", and then kisses me in a way I have to assume one normally doesn't reserve for "friends". And then she left.

What. The. Hell.

Anybody have any idea what this means? Anybody?

 

[Psypherus]

She was drunk maybe?

 

[Compatriot Block]

Was she drunk?

EDIT: Bahaha, same time post.

 

[stompythebeast]

Seriously, why are you guys asking this in a forum?

 

[Panzer_God]

It's a girl, you're gonna be confused no matter what. It's always better to stay on the more casual side of the relationship unless she tells you otherwise or else you'll get screwed. and not in a good way.

 

[megapenguinx]

Drunk drunk drunk is the name of this game

 

[LooK iTz Jinjo]

Yeah probably not the best place to ask for advice. But as has already been stated she was drunk and probably doesn't even remember doing it. I wouldn't think anything of it, maybe you should try talking to her... when she is sober...

 

[stompythebeast]

Also, sounds you landed on the friend zone and got a pity-kiss. Tough, we all have been there tho, you'll live.

 

[vampirekid.13]

some girls make out with friends....


i know a few.

i actually had friends like that, we were just friends...but we'd make out if we were bored, hell its only kissing...

anyway, yea. she may of been drunk.


or she may just be slutty.
if i were you id pray for the slutty, because to be honest...its fun

 

[Samurai Goomba]

She was letting you know that she was your friend, and then showing you what you will never have with her because of it. No mixed signals.

This sounds about right. I guess you could man up and ask her directly what that was about, but I'm betting since she talked about how she was your friend and all, that you don't have a chance. Bah, friend zone'd.

 

[The Iron Ninja]

So I realize that this is probably the last place in the world any kind of rational person would turn for advice on women, but the particular case that is currently baffling me has also stump all of my friends/people I would normally turn too for advice so...

Here's the scenario: I'm at a party with this girl I'm kind of into, and at a completely random point during the nigh she turns to me, says "I like you as a friend", and then kisses me in a way I have to assume one normally doesn't reserve for "friends". And then she left.

What. The. Hell.

Anybody have any idea what this means? Anybody?

Most likely causes in reverse order of likelyhood:

5-She wants you and doesn't even realise it herself.
4-She was drunk
3-She doesn't understand how much is too much for a "friend kiss"
2-She was drunk and didn't understand how much is too much for a "friend kiss"
1-She was messing with you.

 

[lenin_117]

So I realize that this is probably the last place in the world any kind of rational person would turn for advice on women, but the particular case that is currently baffling me has also stump all of my friends/people I would normally turn too for advice so...

Here's the scenario: I'm at a party with this girl I'm kind of into, and at a completely random point during the nigh she turns to me, says "I like you as a friend", and then kisses me in a way I have to assume one normally doesn't reserve for "friends". And then she left.

What. The. Hell.

Anybody have any idea what this means? Anybody?

Fucking with your mind.

 

[Major_Sam]

I really wouldn't worry about her. She seems like she is messing with you. In a bad way. And she was probably drunk. I wouldn't do that to a guy. Kind of nasty cause you don't know what to feel.

 

[The Infamous Scamola]

She was friggin' teasing you, showing you for at least one last time what it is you're missing out on for stumbling and ending up in the dreaded "friend zone".

That, or she was completely pissed.

 

[lordsandro]

Well if she really mean it ... she likes you. Like a friend that is but at least she does not hate you. And "Lets just be friends" is what my cousin girlfriend told him 2 weeks before they started dating. So show her that you are likeble person who will enjoy to know her better and maybe start serios relationship (If that's what you want)

That or she was just fucking with your mind. ;D

 

[Buffoon]

Heh, so many misogynists around here... women aren't all scheming headfucking succubi you know

But apart from that...

It means you should ask her, not us.

What he said. I think when someone kisses you, you have a right to ask what they meant by it.

 

[Vrex360]

The kiss was entierly emotionless, just fun and that she maybe is one of those people who believe that there really can be passionate kissing in a friendship.
That's my guess anyway

 

[hypothetical fact]

She was trying to tell you that she is willing to makeout with you but only if you get her drunk. She added the final guarantee that if you try to makeout with her and she isn't smashed yet you can still be friends.

It may also be a sign that she lacks commitment ie she loves you but can't express it without alcohol.

The answer is blindingly obvious, get a bottle of whisky and knock her up.

 

[Silva]

There's another option that the others missed: she might just believe that you can be friends and have a sexual relationship.

However, she may have been drunk, or messing with you. If you could give us more details of the scenario, we could probably confirm what she meant.

At this point, the one I most doubt is the possibility that she secretly wants you, though the way she said what she said could mean she was kidding on the first line and the kiss was the real response.

These things are very difficult to guage without a full visual of what's going on.

 

[Cpt. Red]

So I realize that this is probably the last place in the world any kind of rational person would turn for advice on women, but the particular case that is currently baffling me has also stump all of my friends/people I would normally turn too for advice so...

Here's the scenario: I'm at a party with this girl I'm kind of into, and at a completely random point during the nigh she turns to me, says "I like you as a friend", and then kisses me in a way I have to assume one normally doesn't reserve for "friends". And then she left.

What. The. Hell.

Anybody have any idea what this means? Anybody?

Most likely causes in reverse order of likelyhood:

5-She wants you and doesn't even realise it herself.
4-She was drunk
3-She doesn't understand how much is too much for a "friend kiss"
2-She was drunk and didn't understand how much is too much for a "friend kiss"
1-She was messing with you.

I rolled a dice for you and I got a 1 so she is messing with you...