Hammartroll said:
can I ask what that means? to not tolerate others being jerks?
and "sticks and stones" is true, cause sticks and stones can break your bones, but can an air vibration caused by vocal cords? nope. This is what people mean when they say common sense is dying.
btw, isn't the brony moto TO tolerate? haters gonna hate? I liked you guys, wtf happened?
The thing is: Words do harm. It is not physical but phsychological. Of course there are several layers to that subject. Does normal namecalling affect you as an adult? No, not unless you already have psychological problems. But verbal abuse is existant and nothing to be surprised of. Even if you think that you have a thick skin there are plenty of people who can use only words to break you down and change you.
But if you want to discuss this: It'll boil down to me knowing stuff only from friends who study / work in this field and what I saw them do to people out of fun. I am basically not qualified for a deep discussion in that field. But do I need to be? Such news pop up at least every month, people get affected by "words on the interwebz" and then there are always people who, whatever is the background, will bring up this saying. Do we need more proof than psychological studies and all this news to finally realise that "words do harm" should finally be part of common sense?
What I mean with not tolerate: First one, I'm not a brony
. I like the show but I can't say that I am a part of the fandom.
Second: I find that anonymity has caused us to accept jerkish behaviour a little too much. We make fun of those guys who yell racist and sexist shit at xbla but why are they there? Because we seem to accept that. "Don't feed the troll", "this is how the internet works" and all that stuff are excuses for us to do jack. Call them out, in the internet and in RL if you know someone who behaves like that. I know that I do that. I stopped playing anything in MP with friends of mine because they want to play with this one guy who starts flaming whenever he is about to lose.