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You're still not getting this: you're describing gay rights movements as pride movements. You're looking at the collective efforts of gay rights proponents as if Pride encompasses all of it, but it was a specific type of person in a specific subculture that declared pride was their slogan.
 

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You're still not getting this: you're describing gay rights movements as pride movements. You're looking at the collective efforts of gay rights proponents as if Pride encompasses all of it
No, I'm not. We've looked at the specific events that grew into Pride, the specific people who coined and popularised the term, and the modern incarnation that is expressly called Pride. Absolutely none of which reflects your characterisation.

Funnily enough, the choice of the word "pride" was viewed as a less radical, more muted shift away from "gay liberation" or similar terms. The more radical elements opposed it; the more moderate voices supported it. Even today Pride is seen as the middle-of-the-road almost milquetoast version of gay rights advocacy.
 
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Funnily enough, the choice of the word "pride" was viewed as a less radical, more muted shift away from "gay liberation" or similar terms.
And that was formulated by the same radicals who were using those other terms.
 

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And that was formulated by the same radicals who were using those other terms.
A few of them, sure, who wanted to moderate and soften the message. It was understood as the less combative, less assertive alternative. "Pride" being understood as something everyone has: in their country, in their family, in their diligence or hard work or history; an antidote to shame.
 

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"Pride" being understood as something everyone has: in their country, in their family, in their diligence or hard work or history; an antidote to shame.
You were right until the last part. It is an argument with wide appeal, but that appeal is to people's lowest instincts.

Let's consider a similar argument that is made: people argue that sexuality is not a choice, people are "born this way", that it's an innate characteristic. The power of this statement in context is that it takes advantage of people's bigotry.

Gay Person: I was born this way.
Homophobe: I think you could choose not to be.
Gay Person: Could you choose to not be straight?
Homophobe: Of course not, I could never be gay.
Gay Person: So it's not a choice.

It's not a winning argument because it reasons to a conclusion that others will accept based on their beliefs, but rather because it gets almost anyone who would challenge it to refuse to answer honestly based on their own prejudices and insecurities.

"We're proud of who we are" works in a similar way, it's not an argument that reasons to a conclusion, but rather one that sticks by consequence of people refusing to set aside their own ego. It's not elevating everyone, it's just acknowledging that we all suck together. Which is certainly true, but not what you want to have a celebration about. Yes, the world is full of people proud of their nationality, gender, race, etc. That's all bad. It's not an antidote to shame, it's a source of hatred. Parents feel pride when their children win an event, and chasing after that feeling leads to horrible parents that spew vile things at their children's opponents or the other parents or the judges ore referees involved. A world where everyone is proud of themselves all the time may or may not have less shame involved, but it's also a world where everyone hates each other all the time.
 

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You were right until the last part. It is an argument with wide appeal, but that appeal is to people's lowest instincts.

Let's consider a similar argument that is made: people argue that sexuality is not a choice, people are "born this way", that it's an innate characteristic. The power of this statement in context is that it takes advantage of people's bigotry.

Gay Person: I was born this way.
Homophobe: I think you could choose not to be.
Gay Person: Could you choose to not be straight?
Homophobe: Of course not, I could never be gay.
Gay Person: So it's not a choice.

It's not a winning argument because it reasons to a conclusion that others will accept based on their beliefs, but rather because it gets almost anyone who would challenge it to refuse to answer honestly based on their own prejudices and insecurities.
"Refuse to answer honestly"? So you're assuming that those straight people could choose to be attracted to the same sex, and are just lying to save face?

Tstorm, have you experienced same sex attraction and chosen to suppress it?

"We're proud of who we are" works in a similar way, it's not an argument that reasons to a conclusion, but rather one that sticks by consequence of people refusing to set aside their own ego. It's not elevating everyone, it's just acknowledging that we all suck together. Which is certainly true, but not what you want to have a celebration about. Yes, the world is full of people proud of their nationality, gender, race, etc. That's all bad. It's not an antidote to shame, it's a source of hatred. Parents feel pride when their children win an event, and chasing after that feeling leads to horrible parents that spew vile things at their children's opponents or the other parents or the judges ore referees involved. A world where everyone is proud of themselves all the time may or may not have less shame involved, but it's also a world where everyone hates each other all the time.
Dude, if pride prompts you to feel hatred towards others, that says more about you than about the feeling of pride. Rational, even-headed, kind people are capable of feeling proud without hatred.

Its not an "argument" at all. Its not about "consequences". All of this shows how little you comprehend of how others feel, and its genuinely a bit sad that you can't get your head around a positive feeling that doesn't punish or condemn others.
 

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I have seen people say that she is mostly on a vendetta after Trump and co did not support her candidacy for senator and wanted to sideline her.

Not sure, if true.
Wouldn't surprise me if that were the case. Petty bitches will always be petty bitches. Especially with other petty bitches. Nothing more and much less as we've seen for years now. Male or female.
 

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"Refuse to answer honestly"? So you're assuming that those straight people could choose to be attracted to the same sex, and are just lying to save face?
Few people like olives the first time they try one. Even fewer would never like olives if they were eating them regularly. You can make the conscious decision to develop a taste for something.
Its not an "argument" at all. Its not about "consequences". All of this shows how little you comprehend of how others feel, and its genuinely a bit sad that you can't get your head around a positive feeling that doesn't punish or condemn others.
There are many positive feelings that don't punish or condemn others. Joy, gratitude, excitement, hope...

Pride does punish or condemn others. It tells you that you are amazing, and anyone that doesn't recognize how amazing you are is to be condemned, and anyone who gets in the way is to be punished. Here in this exact conversation, you condemn me for not agreeing with your source of pride.
 

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Few people like olives the first time they try one. Even fewer would never like olives if they were eating them regularly. You can make the conscious decision to develop a taste for something.
And do you genuinely and honestly believe that's how heterosexuality and homosexuality tend to arise in people? Through those people repeatedly forcing themselves to have sex with people they feel no prior attraction to, until it just... develops?

Is that how your attraction to the opposite sex arose? Because that's not the normal, common experience.

There are many positive feelings that don't punish or condemn others. Joy, gratitude, excitement, hope...

Pride does punish or condemn others. It tells you that you are amazing, and anyone that doesn't recognize how amazing you are is to be condemned, and anyone who gets in the way is to be punished.
Nope. Healthy pride doesn't prompt someone to condemn others. Millions of proud parents aren't condemning other parents for being inferior. Proud gay people are not condemning anyone who isn't gay. You keep repeating that's what it means, but the people actually involved simply aren't engaging in the behaviour you insist they must.

Here in this exact conversation, you condemn me for not agreeing with your source of pride.
I don't condemn you for your disagreement on the meaning of a word. I've condemned you for your prejudice, and your arrogant dismissal of others' lived experience.
 

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I am still baffled out of my mind that the clinically insane Green turns out to be the principled and ''sane'' one here.
She's not, though. She merely seems sane in the same way that a stopped clock is right two times a day.
 

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And do you genuinely and honestly believe that's how heterosexuality and homosexuality tend to arise in people?
No, not usually. Most people stick with their first instinct. Most people who don't like olives just stick with not liking olives. That doesn't mean that they can't like olives.
You keep repeating that's what it means, but the people actually involved simply aren't engaging in the behaviour you insist they must.
Of course they are. People who say black pride look down on white people. People who say white pride look down on black people. People who take pride in their favorite sports team look down on their rivals. So on and so forth.
 

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If I haven't the slightest, that's because you've failed to express it.
Protip: your obstinacy is not an objective measure of someone else's reasonability.

let the ideas speak for themselves,
Why? So you can just ad hominem them if you don't like them:

It's not a secret that academics and journalists see themselves in current times as agents of change rather than purveyors of truths.
don't just declare your authority.
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Those are arguments used to support the idea that black people are inherently inferior
Ahem (#6264, my bold):

"The slightest implication that homosexuality or the culture formed around it has something negative about it sets all of you into defense mode. Some of the negatives are inherent "

Not that "inherent" even matters. It's as simple as that if you cannot discuss homosexuals and homosexuality without framing them entirely in the negative, and want to deny them societal rights heterosexuals enjoy, you cannot complain that hard if people draw certain conclusions. Looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck.

And if you don't have a very specific problem with homosexuality, why on earth are you expending so much time, effort and genuinely awful arguments to attack it?

I mean, like where you argue that millions of people believe in something based on identification with a word, and yet demand your anachronistic/parochial definition of the word counts for their belief rather than their definition! The arrogance and the irrationality!

"We're proud of who we are" works in a similar way, it's not an argument that reasons to a conclusion, but rather one that sticks by consequence of people refusing to set aside their own ego.
Have you considered setting aside your own ego?
 

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And if you don't have a very specific problem with homosexuality, why on earth are you expending so much time, effort and genuinely awful arguments to attack it?
My target is not homosexuality. My target is pride, that is what I'm taking issue with. Which I have been very clear is neither specific to nor inherently part of homosexuality.
 

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My target is not homosexuality. My target is pride, that is what I'm taking issue with. Which I have been very clear is neither specific to nor inherently part of homosexuality.
Well, not your target apart from all the other criticism you've made of homosexuals and homosexuality.

Some criticism based on what appears to be very little understanding of how homosexuals think, including what homosexuals interpret by "pride", and ignoring what the homosexual(s) you are conversing with right now tell you from their experience of being gay.

If you want to attack having "pride" in a specific definition you mean the word, go crazy. But at the point you use that specific definition to attack people who have "pride" that they interpret very differently, you're not really in a very good place, logically. After all, if we going to criticise what another person thinks, we need to criticise what they think and not what some other person makes up that they think.
 

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No, not usually. Most people stick with their first instinct. Most people who don't like olives just stick with not liking olives. That doesn't mean that they can't like olives.
Ok. And where are you deriving this theory from? That it's possible to brute-force change one's sexuality through exposure? Surely not from the abject failure of "conversion therapy".

Of course they are. People who say black pride look down on white people. People who say white pride look down on black people. People who take pride in their favorite sports team look down on their rivals. So on and so forth.
You can insist this is always the case, all you like. All you have is your personal definition of that one word, at odds with how others use and understand it, and how its defined. You've failed to point to anything to substantiate this bizarre interpretation of other peoples' thought processes. It remains narrow-minded, poor faith speculation.
 
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Seems the case against Comey got dropped. That's a shame. If the US falls and if they drag Europe down with them then the least they could have done is also drag down the rat that helped get us here to begin with.
 
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After all, if we going to criticise what another person thinks, we need to criticise what they think and not what some other person makes up that they think.
We can criticize people's choices of communication regardless of what they are thinking. If somebody flies a confederate flag and truly believe it's about live and comfort in their identity, you can still criticize them for what that symbol historically represents. It doesn't matter if they have the same understanding.
Ok. And where are you deriving this theory from? That it's possible to brute-force change one's sexuality through exposure? Surely not from the abject failure of "conversion therapy".
If you're asking me to use my own words, I would disregard the idea of discrete sexualities altogether. It's just adding an interest. All of the weird sex stuff people like on the internet operate this way. People are exposed to something and start to like it, it's not that complex. The abject failures you refer to all lie in attempting the opposite, to get people to hate what they once enjoyed.
You can insist this is always the case, all you like. All you have is your personal definition of that one word, at odds with how others use and understand it, and how its defined. You've failed to point to anything to substantiate this bizarre interpretation of other peoples' thought processes. It remains narrow-minded, poor faith speculation.
Do you dispute really dispute it? Do you not look at all the ways people draw tribal boundaries between "us" and "them" and recognize the pride they feel?
 

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Seems the case against Comey got dropped. That's a shame. If the US falls and if they drag Europe down with them then the least they could have done is also drag down the rat that helped get us here to begin with.
Comey is living in another era, the era of Obama, Clinton, and Reagan. He has a hero complex. Which is sad since I like him as a person, I just think Trump outplayed him.
 

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My target is not homosexuality. My target is pride, that is what I'm taking issue with. Which I have been very clear is neither specific to nor inherently part of homosexuality.
Im fine with this if your targetting all pride things, not just homosexual one

All religous days and celebrations. All veterans days. All sports days. Anything patriotic gone. All celebrations of the effort of police, doctors or fire fighters. Removing all hetero context from books, films, song and shows. Etc