Last week, my college held a "Fresher's Event" at a prime concert/club venue, mainly involving loud club music, blinking lights and a large proportion of pre-drunk teens. Although the number of drunken teenagers could be seen as ridiculous in itself, what really surprised me, and the school as a whole, was a "game" played by the rugby team. The whole event was actually picked up the The Sunday Times and explains the situation very well:
The point of this thread boils down to this:
Are you surprised and do you think it's a big deal? It's been a strong topic of discussion across the college.
This is my first experience of a situation like this, both the club atmosphere and the actions of the rugby team, so I was completely thrown. Some people reacted even more strongly and in response to this a feminism society has actually been set-up in the college (which received equal measures of support and hate).LAST WEEK they had their freshers? party at a sixth-form college near where I live. This is one of the higher achieving state colleges in the country but for all the academic excellence, it remains connected to the community it serves. That is to say, it deals with the same issues as other educational establishments and the authorities had the usual mess to clear up on the morning after the freshers? party.
They say that about 30 students were admitted to the accident and emergency unit at the local hospital, but that wasn?t what caused the greatest misgivings over the following days.
What bothered a majority of the students and their teachers was the behaviour of a group of boys who came to the party with a game that they thought was funny.
The boys were mostly members of the college?s rugby team and their plan was for each one to ingratiate himself with as many of the girls at the venue as possible, engage in a snogging session, record the event with a notch on their arm and then move onto the next girl. The guy with the most notches would have bragging rights.
You may think that this was nothing more than a relatively harmless prank and even find mitigation in the fact that most of the young rugby players had consumed a lot of alcohol. When the young women, lured into a game they didn?t even know they were playing, discovered what had taken place the next day they weren?t in the least amused. What made matters worse was that the girls only discovered what had happened via Facebook and the boys? boasts about what they had been up to.
The college authorities also took a very dim view of the behaviour of the boys. There was a disciplinary process, warnings, emails of apology from the guilty parties to every student in the college and the Christmas party was cancelled. The boys? behaviour wasn?t just crass, it was beyond that and not far removed from misogynistic.
The point of this thread boils down to this:
Are you surprised and do you think it's a big deal? It's been a strong topic of discussion across the college.