I agree with this man While being fat isnt an OK or good thing its not something that just because you are fat you should be shunned from society every one needs love. and who knows with this guys love she could lose weight and become a 10/10 beauty then would would the dumb friend say? Diamonds are not always the beautiful things you see on rings.snowplow said:
"Wait, you like a fat chick?"
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I'm honestly not sure what's worse on this site at this point. The fat apologists who seem to think that fat cells can be made from thin air if you aren't genetically blessed for a life of skinny-ness, or the people who think that anybody over 150 pounds is going to die at the age of 30.
OT: Yes OP, your friend is an ass. Nobody should tell you who or what you should find attractive, and ultimately it should come down to more personal traits like personality anyway. Good for you for not being shallow.
OT: Yes OP, your friend is an ass. Nobody should tell you who or what you should find attractive, and ultimately it should come down to more personal traits like personality anyway. Good for you for not being shallow.
I would have said the same thing as your friend. BUT only just to piss you off.
Actually believing that. . .well I'd have to punch a fool.
Actually believing that. . .well I'd have to punch a fool.
Anyone who has a problem with this is shallower than a kiddie pool and should shut the fuck up. As long as you're cool with it, nobody else should care about it. Ain't nothin' wrong with havin' a little jam on your jelly.
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Gandalf's gonna be pissed.
Fuck what other people think, if the two of you make each other happy, that's all there is to it. Don't let other people tell you what's good for you.
Your friend seems like an idiot. Now I'm not personally attracted to fat people myself, but they're people like everyone else. Saying they don't deserve a boyfriend just because they have a body type that he doesn't like is just shallow and immature.
I wonder what would happen if said friend were pressed to define what exactly defines a person as fat. Like really pin it down, to the finest detail. Like You're Joe Pesci in Goodfellas and she's you when you're funny.
... or something. Kinda lost it halfway through that metaphor.
... or something. Kinda lost it halfway through that metaphor.
'Ooh! This person seems to be comfortable enough with their body image for it not to be a major concern to them. I'd better object loudly to this.'
I can see why a friend doing this might think they are 'helping', trying to make sure you don't get ridiculed, but that doesn't make it his business.
Also, I wonder if he'd do the same thing if you started dating a really thick girl. Would he say 'Dude, how can you like a stupid chick?' I somewhat doubt that.
I don't think this is 'looking out for your friend', I think it's just straight-up vanity. If it's about your girl at all then it's 'I don't want to be seen with a fat chick!' If not, then it's projection.
Obviously everyone has their opinions but in this case it's damaging to your relationship with the girl and with your 'friend', my advice would be to ignore the crap out of him. If you're going to drop either of the people in question then drop the idiot who can't look past the skin of a person.
I can see why a friend doing this might think they are 'helping', trying to make sure you don't get ridiculed, but that doesn't make it his business.
Also, I wonder if he'd do the same thing if you started dating a really thick girl. Would he say 'Dude, how can you like a stupid chick?' I somewhat doubt that.
I don't think this is 'looking out for your friend', I think it's just straight-up vanity. If it's about your girl at all then it's 'I don't want to be seen with a fat chick!' If not, then it's projection.
Obviously everyone has their opinions but in this case it's damaging to your relationship with the girl and with your 'friend', my advice would be to ignore the crap out of him. If you're going to drop either of the people in question then drop the idiot who can't look past the skin of a person.
Your so-called friend, I'm sorry to say, is a shallow little asswipe. What business of his is it?
Additionally: I love it when body-snark is couched as concern about a complete stranger's health. It fools no one.
Additionally: I love it when body-snark is couched as concern about a complete stranger's health. It fools no one.
1. Yes being a man does yield certain genetic consequences but it's not a choiceUltratwinkie said:
2. Yes it is a choice but is required to continue the human race
3. It is a choice but is hardly that big a deal if it's just one soda
4. Again, not a choice
Some fat people lack the willpower to change their habits and some fat people are given a choice to live healthier (excluding the people that have a disease that prevent them from doing so).
OT: Does this women have excellent birthing hips? If so then you must marry her immediately and get them to good use!
Tell your friend this, almost 70% of the women in this country are overweight with 30% of them being obese. The left over 30% of not-fat will have a huge chunk of elderly women, unattractive faces, & flat yoga bodies. The small percentage of thin attractive women with curves will have exquisitely high standards in men, then you can remove "hot lesbians" from that equations because they're not bisexual like porn would have you believe.
Thin women being attractive is a new concept in history. In the days of Alexander the Great, women actually had male models & they just slapped tiny tits, a pot belly, & a wig on it. In medieval times they liked pale doughy women with small far-set breasts, flabby arms, thick thighs, & a pot belly. Why Litch Queens dominate the fashion world is anyone's guess.
Thin women being attractive is a new concept in history. In the days of Alexander the Great, women actually had male models & they just slapped tiny tits, a pot belly, & a wig on it. In medieval times they liked pale doughy women with small far-set breasts, flabby arms, thick thighs, & a pot belly. Why Litch Queens dominate the fashion world is anyone's guess.
Fat chicks need love too. But they gotta pay.
Fatness and hotness are not mutually exclusive. Though I highly doubt that I could ever find someone attractive if they were very fat or even obese, there are plenty of slightly or moderately overweight women who are quite beautiful.
Fatness and hotness are not mutually exclusive. Though I highly doubt that I could ever find someone attractive if they were very fat or even obese, there are plenty of slightly or moderately overweight women who are quite beautiful.
Different guys are into different girls, if you like the fat ones then that's your personal preference, I think I'd catch an equal amount of flak if I said I loved muscle chicks (which I do like for example Monica Mowi). Both fat and muscle chicks are not society's standard of beauty (the kind of girl with a spray on tan who looks like she hasn't eaten in a week).
Quite so.Farseer Lolotea said:
I, for one, don't love it. I mean, yes, the fact that someone thinks they come across as genuinely concerned me amuses me to no end, but the entire act of it, I find appalling, despicable and very punchinthefaceworthy.
"Oh, you like something I don't like? BURN IN HELL, HEATHEN!"
I am at the other side of the spectrum, I like muscled girls. Not the ones that are pumped full of steroids, but the natural muscle ones. The amount of flak I got was amazing. Even lost a few friends because of this, they never stopped teasing me, even when I told them that I got tired of the constant remarks. They never stopped, thus I told em to fuck off.
Now, years later, I got a nice muscle girl as a partner and none of my current friends dares to say anything rude, because she can fold them all in half.
So, you prefer a fat chick, then go for it. Whatever peels your banana.
Now, years later, I got a nice muscle girl as a partner and none of my current friends dares to say anything rude, because she can fold them all in half.
So, you prefer a fat chick, then go for it. Whatever peels your banana.
Well, you've gotta admit: it does make it easier to identify the body-snarkers for what they are.Vegosiux said:
Not sure I can condone the roofie comment, but I totally agree on the friends issue. My friends are like family and I've known them all for years. Some people I lose touch with because of geography but to just ditch them... it's inconceivable.The Unworthy Gentleman said:
As for fat girls, well...
Tremendous sense of value.
My wife is overweight (shit, so am I, but that's not the point). Before we got together she had a years long on and off again thing for years with a guy who eventually told her flat out "I couldn't deal with what my friends would think if I dated a fat chick".
She's still friends with him, but she's never really forgiven him.
She's still friends with him, but she's never really forgiven him.