BloatedGuppy said:
... a social, religious, occupational, or other group sharing common characteristics or interests and perceived or perceiving itself as distinct in some respect from the larger society within which it exists (usually preceded by the ): the business community; the community of scholars.
Gaming is no longer a fringe hobby, and ...
And I'll have to stop you right there, because even the definition you just provided has communities as broadly defined as gaming in it (video gaming, if you want to be pedantic here).
It does seem like you're packing some emotional baggage because once you got teased or had someone make a rude assumption about you based on your hobby, and you want to chalk it up to the bad behavior of other hobbyists rather than chalking it up to the ignorance of the people who were jumping to conclusions.
I chalk it up to both ignorant people and the "bad hobbyists", actually.
You can't start a fire without fuel and a source of ignition.
As for the "baggage" it wasn't just teasing or a rude remark. I had punishments for crimes uncommitted* dealt to me by a paranoid
school system more concerned with lawsuits than the well being of their students.
It's ignorant profiling, and one of MANY examples I could list.
(*Seriously. I got into one argument with a group of kids, and they suspended me for 3 days over it. No violence. Why? Because I was just "anti-social" and played games as a hobby. They even brought that up with their bullshit "counseling" sessions.)
Ideally, we would all recognize that the actions of a few do not represent the greater whole, but we don't live in that world. So until we reach that ideal world, I
will keep handing out my "welcome to the real world lessons".
TLDR - You have a remarkably low shame threshold.
Blah blah snide remark about my persona, blah.
Don't ascribe their behavior to an entire "community" and then hold yourself above it. Couple that with your high-horse mentality about the "real world" (which I find particularly hilarious, given our respective ages) and you're certainly not in any position to be throwing stones about snide remarks.
You made a snide remark, claim it isn't a snide remark...fine.
But then DEFEND THAT REMARK AS IF IT WERE SNIDE BY TRYING TO COW ME WITH ANOTHER SNIDE REMARK.
Fantastic logic on display there.
So if someone in the business community had an opinion you disagreed with, you would be full of shame?
So now we've gone from "it's just a few bad apples" to "one person".
Nice loaded question there.
You're meant to fight against that, not use it an excuse for why you do it too.
So...let me get this straight.
I'm a hypocrite because I note how a few bad apples plus ignorant people = unjust treatment.
And...now you're saying that I'm doing the same thing because I called the overwhelmingly negative attitude of a LARGE GROUP OF PEOPLE out?
That is the most contrived insult I've ever seen someone pull on me on this website. Well done!
It's as stupid as the "You're a hypocrite because you're whining about whining!" crap teenagers whip out when they think they're being clever.