I just had a conversation with a friend that blew my mind - our sons are good friends and also have another friend we will call "Bob." Our friend asked if we ever let our kid go over the Bob's house and we said that he hasn't yet, but "Why, is there something we should know?" So our friend says "Well, I don't want to be gossipy, but did you know about his father and just getting out of jail?"
So I've met Bob's father because our older sons played on the same sports team last year and, honest to god, he was a very personable and great guy in all my interactions. Well, it turns out, that a couple years ago he got fired from being a teacher because he was carrying on sexually explicit email exchanges with one of his middle school students (I mean, WTF). There was no physical contact, but in reviewing the emails, there were indications of things moving that way. So he was convicted of "accosting a minor" and spent 6 months in jail for it.
I swear you would never in a million years pick this guy to be that way and it is a complete mind fuck. Seriously one of the nicest guys I've met, but the facts are the facts and I realize in hindsight there are things he was lying about (e.g. his job) while he was going through the trial, etc. I just have no idea how this flew under the radar among all our friends at school. So anyway, he now has to be registered as a sex offender - the incident happened a few years ago.
So I've met Bob's father because our older sons played on the same sports team last year and, honest to god, he was a very personable and great guy in all my interactions. Well, it turns out, that a couple years ago he got fired from being a teacher because he was carrying on sexually explicit email exchanges with one of his middle school students (I mean, WTF). There was no physical contact, but in reviewing the emails, there were indications of things moving that way. So he was convicted of "accosting a minor" and spent 6 months in jail for it.
I swear you would never in a million years pick this guy to be that way and it is a complete mind fuck. Seriously one of the nicest guys I've met, but the facts are the facts and I realize in hindsight there are things he was lying about (e.g. his job) while he was going through the trial, etc. I just have no idea how this flew under the radar among all our friends at school. So anyway, he now has to be registered as a sex offender - the incident happened a few years ago.