What do YOU find attractive?

[CrysisMcGee]

I have found that I find many things attractive, but I shall name a few. Intelligence and Personality. Sense of Humor. A passion for Music.

It's entirely personality, actually. That's what i find attractive.

 

[Lord Kloo]

Smart, good ideologies, nice, kind, playful, pretty (cute more than beautiful) and makes me feel special (ie doesn't go around hugging/kissing everyone as a day-to-day thing as those are some of the things I regard as special in a relationship)

Thats about it, surprisingly I haven't found my perfect girl yet..

Rural, middle class England is a difficult area for getting partners, there's probably an average age of 36 for losing your virginity..

EDIT: oh I forgot, long haired red heads, gets me every time.. also a personality that mirrors that of a small child who is quite innocent, call me a pedo but cute, innocent girls (my own age) are the direct essence of beauty IMO..

 

[The Man With the Soap]

I'm a seventeen year old male, and...well...I don't. I have surpressed my sexual urges until I am functionally an asexual. Huzzah for solitude!

 

[nomad240]

For me I the cute/helpless girl/woman who is open to experiences willing to wait for my ass as I slowly start to work out ( unfortunatly XP) funny/ witty.. help me with understanding my mistakes.... I some times say stupid/ hurtful things without intending too.

as for apperance...... blonde...no brunette....no red head.. no green! NEON PINK! lol I don't care I'm open for anything

also some one who's not really into the video-game comic book/ doctor who thing but is intrested.

 

[Skrableren]

It is to much to ask for a copy of my self of the oppside gender? yes? darn..

I Like big hands and large men, if he can pick up my 55 kg and trow me around a bit I'm all for it and by god he needs to have sensible shoes..

And a firm handshake.

He needs to understand, he needs to be clever, he needs to love me to the end of days, and drop me as a hot rock when ever I do something wrong. He needs to hate me and kick me, and he needs to forgive all my sins when ever I want him to, and take them as the horrors as they are when I tell him to.


Who wouldn't want the perfect guy?



Also +10 if he have ever read a book longer than 300 pages that isn't on the book store best seller of the week.

 

[The Man With the Soap]

Personality wise, I love nerdy guys who can understand my nerdy references
Looks wise, I'm a sucker for guys with tattoos and who wear nice clothes.
Never really care about what their face looks like or their weight, as long as they have nice hip bones. I dont know why but I've always loved hip bones. Is that weird?

Yes, that is very weird, and you should probably go talk to a professional about that.

I jest. I jest.

 

[Tarakos]

Blonde hair, blue eyes. I don't want a stick or a log, but a branch, if you get what I'm sayin'. And she's gotta be quirky; a little goofy.

Beyond that, I'm pretty flexible.

 

[Skrableren]

Glass Animals. I find glass animals attractive. They are pleasing to look at and cold when you touch them, i dont like them in winter but awesome in summers.

That is awfully curious .)

 

[yamitami]

Big hips and not so skinny her ribs are showing. But self-confidence is the biggest turn on.

 

[lllumpy]

Big ol' tittys (.Y.)

 

[ShadowsofHope]

Blue/Green eyes, brunette/redhead, slightly pale/noticeably tanned, intelligent, personable, has a spine (maybe a little femme fetale attitude), smaller but proportionally curved, perky endowments, etc. All of these categories, and she is getting asked!

But really, any of the above attributes (intelligence and personable are a must) work.

 

[TheYellowCellPhone]

Being a girl really helps.

I like the tall and skinny ones :3

 

[justnotcricket]

Kindness =)

Genuine kindness is kind of a rare commodity these days, since people spend so much of their time being bitter and jaded and sarcastic that they seem to kind of have lost the ability to just smile and show pure, unconditional kindness. Especially 'young' people, because they're still caught up in the throes of finding out who they are and where they belong.

So I guess healthy self-confidence is actually Step 0, and probably actually responsible for all the things I find attractive. =)

How sexually attractive someone is for me is actually influenced more by this kind of thing than pure physical appearance.

 

[SovietSecrets]

This is what I find attractive. Don't even need to explain it. Tattoos optional, though preferred.

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[DanielDeFig]

Considering my view on love is: "two personalities finding each other", i'm just looking for someone with a personality that both matches and compliments my own.

More specifically: Fun-loving, well-read, intelligent, interested in discussing politics, and willing to discuss history and philosophy.

Physically i'm just looking for an attractive face. Usually cute or possibly elegant (symmetrical?). Some noses, lips, and even foreheads can be an immediate turn-off (can't say what specifically. it can be either too much or too little).

Other than that, i can't stand skinny women, and while some fat usually gives form, there is a limit (unhealthily fat). I also tend to favor petite and curvy women, probably due to most women in my family being such (familiarity is attractive in any context, as the unknown is scary in any context).

Oh, and i'm a heterosexual male.

 

[Ironic Pirate]

Personality wise, I love nerdy guys who can understand my nerdy references
Looks wise, I'm a sucker for guys with tattoos and who wear nice clothes.
Never really care about what their face looks like or their weight, as long as they have nice hip bones. I dont know why but I've always loved hip bones. Is that weird?

What do you mean by hip-bones?

Anyway, while I could list off my little particulars here, I'm going to be realistic here.

As long as she aren't morbidly obese or anything, and if she has a decent personality, I'll probably like her at least to a degree. And really, that's all I'd need, beyond acceptance of my weird fetishes and lack of sex drive.

 

[Mr S]

If she has a great personality, we get along fine, and she doesn't look too bad, I'm happy.

 

[Hinro]

What I find most attractive physically in a woman is Red(has to be straight though. No waves or curls)or Blonde(This hair can be wavy) hair just past the shoulders, Between the size of 5'3 to 5'10, skinny but not showing bones, green or hazel eyes, a few freckles across the nose, absolutely no tattoos, only piercings in the lower part of the ear (maybe a small one on the side of the nose but no loops) and a B/C.

Of course, you could have all those aspects listed above but I still won't find you attractive unless you are also able to hold a intelligent conversation, interested in sports, nice and,have strong moral beliefs. Also, for some reason, if the person is extremely artistic or into ANIME (even though I can't draw and never really watch ANIME), as long as they are fit I don't notice anything else and I'll find them attractive.

 

[TPiddy]

A woman who doesn't reject me immediately because I look like I've been attacked with acid, or because I enjoy learning about obscure areas of technology and machinery.

That sounds like it should be very low standards, but trust me - no woman has ever been romantically interested in me. This is a contributing factor to my disdain/dislike of most women.

I hate to say this.... but... Money... money is the key to all your problems. I am not the most attractive guy myself, but the minute I started rolling around in my new Audi, the women just seem to come out of the woodwork. Too bad for them, I already have a fiancee that liked me before the money

 

[solidstatemind]

Wit, intelligence, a calm demeanor, and a reasonable level of fitness.

For a long term partner, looks shouldn't be paramount, as we all age. Instead, find someone you really get along with and can entertain and help each other... because you're going to be spending a LOT of time, together...

As for the 'reasonable level of fitness', you really need s woman who can do things in the real world if you happen to get interested in hiking, or whatever. Oh yeah, and it'll be a lot less stressful on you if you know she can run away from the Zombies/Aliens/Vampires without you having to wait on her ass.