What do you look for in a girlfriend/boyfriend?

[Jirlond]

I like girls who can talk - ones who can debate but can be grown up enough to accept they can be wrong. Ones who dont get upset over trivial things and ones who do not like gossip magazines!

All in all silly random girls with the personailies of men! Why don't I just date men you ask? Cos I am one and I wouldn't want to date me

 

[WrongSprite]

A pulse.

That's about it for me. I'm not picky, I can't afford to be.

 

[DarkLordofDevon]

Someone caring, good sense of empathy/trustworthyness.

 

[megalomania]

This may sound like intellectual snobbery but I like girls who are my intellectual equal (or smarter than me), also the girls I stay with longest are the girls who will stand up to me, argue with me and banter with me.

 

[dont_blink]

amanda palmer avatars?

 

[Gladion]

Mh. I once had a dumb girlfriend. The relationship was unbelievable. Never want to experience something like that ever again.

Also very important: Smell. I can imagine a relationship with any woman, regardless what she looks like, if she just smells nice. Okay, there is one exception: I don't like obese women. That doesn't mean I care about every single extra kilogram, but when it's clearly noticeable, I just can't.

She also has to be a nice person. I don't mind if she's quiet or loud, as long as she is friendly, I'm fine with that.

I'm extremely sarcastic, so she needs to understand this kind of humour, and find it funny, too, otherwise she will probably leave me very quickly.

Final point: Kinkiness. Yeah, now we're talking about the juicy stuff. I don't want her to be into S/M. :S I like my share of pain far away from anything that has to do with sex. Even though a nice bite in the neck or shoulder...Whatever.

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I'll give you my number via PM.

NONONO, I don't meet your conditions anyway. Brown eyes

In all seriousness now, don't you think you are a little too picky? Not saying you should content yourself with anything that crosses by, but it might be very hard to find somebody if you define your partner up to the hair colour.

 

[Swaki]

I'm not really a relationship kinda guy, i usually feel bored after a month or two, but i like girls whit boobies.

Good to see people still have such high standards.

ambition is the enemy of success, i can be happy for a month whit a girl whit boobies and then break it off or i can be lonely for 12 years then be happy whit the perfect girl for a month and then miserable for the rest of my life knowing she is the best and breaking up would make no sense and realize that the problem is me.

so rather than being suicidal i get to see boobies.

 

[Deathsong17]

Warm and cuddly.

 

[Golden Gryphon]

I suppose the most important thing would be someone that didn't mind my teasing. Intelligence, sense of humour, fun to talk to, all the standard stuff. Not blonde and not hideous but apart from that looks are secondary.

 

[dwightsteel]

Me, I like guys with nice hair and a sense of humour. They don't have to be the fittest, or most handsome guy in the world, as long as they can make me smile
I don't like guys who walk around thinking they're the Cassanova of the 21st century, and guys who are only interested in sex. The kind of guy who will PM a girl on a place like MySpace or Bebo just for cybering. It's the most annoying thing in the world, and calling the girl "babe" is not going to help your chances.

What does everyone else look/not look for in significant other?

While looks will never make or break a relationship with me, I think a certain level of physical attraction is important in keeping the spark. Mind you, how I interact with their personality will have a good amount of influence on how I perceive that level of attraction. I like a girl who isn't afraid to put me in my place, and tell it like it is. On that same note, I want the girl to be able to take it as well as dish it out. I would hope she was eclectic in her tastes, especially in music. I like discovering new tastes in all areas of life, and ideally, the girl I like will be much the same. She doesn't have to be a geek, but she has to at least accept and appreciate my geekiness. I tend to get really involved in comics, mostly because I'm attempting to pursue a career in that field. I'm a pretty patient person, and I'm not easily angered, and It'd be nice if she were the same way. And if I am angry, I want to be able to vent, and for her to just listen. More often then not, I'm not looking for answers in my times of anger, I just want to know someone is hearing me. And I want her to be able to vent her feelings to me as well.

Mind you, all these are my ideal traits, in what you would consider my "dream girl". The truth is, I've dated every other type of girl but the one I seem to be looking for. I'm starting to wonder if she exists.

EDIT: This is in no way a come on, but just something I find funny. You mentioned someone with nice hair, and mine is one of the few physical traits I'm proud of. It's thick, dark and wavy. I won't claim to be the most handsome chap, but I love my hair.

 

[social_outcast]

Knowledge of the 2038 problem and an opinion on the proposed concepts of FTL travel...

Im serious aswell. Lucky I've got that

 

[The Salty Vulcan]

Me, I like guys with nice hair and a sense of humour. They don't have to be the fittest, or most handsome guy in the world, as long as they can make me smile

*checks breath* Why hello there

But seriously. Inteligence, a sense of humuour, patiance to put up with my geekiness and general strangeness. Loyalty would be nice too though

 

[Ziadaine_v1legacy]

Good personality and looked good. To me they cant have one without the other. I dont want a funny, nice person but doesn't look after her health at all; or a "Dipsy Blonde" as one might put it.

 

[ThePirateMan]

Meh I don't really care as long as it's a nice person to be with. Aka not an asshole.

 

[KenzS]

If I can ever commit to a relationship I'm sure I'll find out. But I'm a sucker for a pretty face,

 

[rekabdarb]

someone who is able to hold up an argument/ conversation w/o checking the interwebs.
intelligence, humor, common sense, and being sane would be nice too.

and at least not 75% butt ugly that'd be good too

 

[s-l-u-g]

A pulse.

Well, that's a prerequisite that everyone looks for isn't it. Except Norman Bates.

I look for a girl who has nice eyes and a good personality. That's it really. Oh, if she can use telekinesis she's an instant +60points in my books. Unless she's from resident evil. Then ill just murder.

 

[Leftnt Sharpe]

I do like a girl with a nice smile, the sort of smile that makes your day and the sort of smile that can persuade you to do anything. Intelligence helps too though.