Maybe it's more the other way around, and people are
defined as nerds by significant parts of society
when among other things they like Anime? Co-relation is hardly strange if one concept helps form the other...
Anyway, you'll usually have to take the road less travelled to find the stuff less sold on main street. And with it being in animated form, be more open to alternatives to the western social convention that animated stuff is for kids (which Pixar is by now butchering with their multi-level stories though).
Naheal said:
I like magic and tech. Anime's the only medium that blends the two well at all.
This as well, also on a more general level. Mixing up different themes and genres, and doing it well to boot, seem to be one of the strengths of the medium, and something rarely found outside it. Even when the result of it becomes weird beyond imagining, like
To Aru Majutsu no Index[footnote]You should watch that one if you haven't already Naheal, aside from it being entirely
based around blending high-tech "science" (espers) and magic its liberal approach to theology would be right up your alley.[/footnote] it's usually novel enough to be worth watching just for that.