What should I do with her?

[Terminal Blue]

And this is why I only keep two friends at any given time.

People will be mean and spiteful, you can't shelter her from everything. Romantic interests should also be good friends, simply act as such and you will both be better off. Creating a victim-rescuer mentality never ends well, take her on a date if she needs a distraction, but ultimately she needs this to grow as a person.

Be a crutch, not an umbrella if you prefer a metaphor.

Agreed..

Drop the protective crap, it's demeaning. Your girlfriend can probably look after herself, and it's not your responsibility to step in and play superman so you can level up your penis. If she's actually bisexual, it means she'd be comfortable in a relationship with another woman which means she's probably not the kind of person who needs a big man around all the time to stop all the hurtful words.

Give advice, be supportive, let her know you're there if she needs to vent about it but seriously, you're a partner in her life not her daddy substitute and it's not your job to wade in and sort out her social life for her. Worse, doing so makes her look (and feel) incredibly pathetic.

Also, don't take anything I say personally. Overprotective guys piss me off, but I sense you're not one of them.. just don't step over that deceptively inviting line.

(especially if this is just groundless homophobia and not your girlfriend being butch or something, because gay men for one can be quite repulsive and I can more understand hate based on the person's actions)

Yeah? Well, straight people can be fucking revolting..

That's still homophobia dude. It's like saying 'black people can be revolting' because a black guy mugged you once. Personal experience doesn't entitle you to make generalized negative comments.

 

[Communist partisan]

My girlfriend is bisexual. One day a good friend of hers for several years finds out about her sexuality and flips. She immediately begins turning their friends against my girlfriend. She invites their whole group to a movie night except for her, spams abusive language on her facebook, and a whole bunch of other repulsive stuff.

While what she is doing is not technically illegal, its pathetic and disgusting. What should I do with her? As a boyfriend, I feel it my duty to defend her from such attacks, but how should i go about it?

Also can we keep it legal? I'm not going to jail over this

Throw a fucking rock trouth her window and say they fucking crossed the line and if they got BFs beat the fuck outta'em and stomp on'em whith your boots after doing that and after threating to finnish'em all of if they call the cops they wouldn't bother you or your GF anymore

PS: after that get piss drunk and have some fun whith your GF celebrating your victory.


(yes, I know that's brutal and very skinhead of me but I'm proud of doing that if I must)

 

[Wintermoot]

punch her "friends" in the face, if her friends treat her like that for her sexuality they arent her friends

 

[BenzSmoke]

I'd ask your girlfriend if she needs help, if I were you.

 

[Monkfish Acc.]

Drop the protective crap, it's demeaning. Your girlfriend can probably look after herself, and it's not your responsibility to step in and play superman so you can level up your penis. If she's actually bisexual, it means she'd be comfortable in a relationship with another woman which means she's probably not the kind of person who needs a big man around all the time to stop all the hurtful words.

Give advice, be supportive, let her know you're there if she needs to vent about it but seriously, you're a partner in her life not her daddy substitute and it's not your job to wade in and sort out her social life for her. Worse, doing so makes her look (and feel) incredibly pathetic.

Also, don't take anything I say personally. Overprotective guys piss me off, but I sense you're not one of them.. just don't step over that deceptively inviting line.

THANK you.

I'm sure your lady and your friends are already very proud of your willy, nobody will be impressed with you throwing it around.
The male cockwaving bullshit is not necessary and not done for her. It is a selfish act performed so you feel big and strong.
Don't fall into that trap. Just be supportive. Let your girlfriend know not everyone will be such ignorant fucking tools about this sort of thing.

 

[Mechsoap]

Well her ''friend'' seems like a mighty *****... judging someone for who they like to snuggle with isn't exactly the most fair move.

 

[dmase]

Your gf's friend is a *****, she is better off without her. If she can't salvage her relationship with her other friends by just explaining the situation then I don't see the other people as being good friends either. Its your job to defend her but these are her problems, this seems like an emotional comfort thing.

Oh and abusive language is reportable to the mods of fbook. Report all the instances and then unfriend that girl. You say her friends so i don't think there is anything you can do unless they are also your friends.

 

[Doctor Glocktor]

Before I answer, has the friend flipped solely because your girlfriend is bisexual or because she feels betrayed that she was never told?

This is the most important post in this thread. Answer it, OP. Then you can figure out what to do.

 

[blankedboy]

Tell the ***** that your girlfriend's sexuality doesn't affect her.
Then proceed to explain, in detail, various reasons why she is a bitchy homophobe.

EDIT: GODDAMNIT I GOT NINJA'D ASDFGHJKL

 

[astrav1]

Comfort her in this time. Join her in the battle if it's in person. If it is online then she shouldn't be worried. Maybe even see if you can contract the assistance of anonymous. In a clever way though so they can't find you.

 

[crudus]

Tell your girlfriend to block her and anyone who posts that crap on her page? Just ignore the assholes, they'll get bored eventually...

and if they don't it is harassment and you could have them arrested

which is what I suggest.

 

[Nieroshai]

Maybe you might ask your girlfriend whether she wants someone so hurtful as a friend, let alone a facebook friend. If this is particularly gay-bashing, then this must be a "religious thing" for the friend, in which case if she's Christian she's not a very good one cuz we're supposed to forgive and love our friends.