What Should I Do?

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TheLazyGamer

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Feb 8, 2010
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I've been thinking this over for a long time now and I still can't figure out what to do.

I am 20 years old, and currently have a girlfriend of roughly three and a half years that i still have really strong feelings for (love). But lately like every say...three to four days theres always some sort of disagreement or argument over something really stupid that gets blown way out of proportion. She also goes to school roughly 2-3 hours away from me and that bothers me too because I like having the person I'm with close to me, not seeing them once every month or so. Now all of this really bothers me and lately I've been thinking of just calling it quits because I don't want that to continue to happen. She had also given the ultmiatum of never coming back if I do end it with her, which bothers me too because I'd hate to make the mistake of leaving her and then not being happy with myself ever again.

But here's my twist I guess? There's another girl that's kinda come into my life that I've met thru my new job (I've been working there for about 6 months now) and I believe I do truly like her and I think she feels the same way about me. She's 17 years old as well, but she just seems to get everything I say and understand who I am and my sense of humour. It's not like we talk every single day, but whenever we hang around we always have fun together and the conversation pretty much never ends.

So my ultimate question is, what should I do?
 

Rose and Thorn

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I was in the same situation. My lover was also going to school, and I had graduated. *Kinda the same as going to different schools*

End it pal, she'll leave you eventually anyway, you might as well do it first and go with this new chick. I was having those same petty arguments, and I am afraid it only gets worse. I tried to stick it out because I was in love, my lover left me for someone else. I was with my lover for three years.