what would you do?

[The Anhk24]

ok well there is a girl I've been friends for with a while(who i like), who a few months ago dumped her boyfriend. After they split me and him became friends, though after shit he's said to me the past week im not sure that we are. he is one of those really emotional dudes who won't accept they're not together, so i never asked the girl out. Recently though I been having thniking about asking her out, and she seems to have an interest in me. the thing is though if i ask her out the dude is going to hate my eternal soul, and if she says yes I'm sure he won't take that well as he thinks she still loves him. what would you guys do?

 

[Radeonx]

Ask her out.
No one can decide whether or not you can't go out with someone except for the person you're going out with, so in that situation, fuck the other guy, do what you want to do.

 

[RadioActiveChimp]

who do u want more, him or her? that's what it boils down to. i say screw the emotional guy, they're usualy baggage.

 

[Kortney]

The guy sounds annoying, get with the girl.

 

[BlumiereBleck]

ask her out to send the guy a message

 

[SnipErlite]

Ask her out. She's single and can make her own choices, he has no right to say who she can and cannot get with

 

[Blackmagic1515]

Go for the girl. The guy sounds like an ass. Why waste a good oppotunity for someone your not even sure you're friends with?

 

[God's Clown]

Really does come down to which do you like more. I personally would pick the chick, since you don't seem very good friends with the guy. Plus, chicks have boobs. Boobs are in the list of top 3 greatest things of all time(assuming they are on a woman, man boobs are fail.)

 

[DuplicateValue]

Ask him out. It'll solve everything.........I think.

 

[Julianking93]

Ask her out.

He sounds a bit emotionally unstable if he can't come to terms with breaking up with this girl, but that's no reason for you not to ask her.

 

[recoverytwo]

A girl has a vag. , nuff said.

 

[justcallmeslow]

Encourage a rapist to move into his neighborhood. Then silently with a knife and broomstick murder him. The rapist will be blamed and you will be free to do as you wish with her.

are you sure you don't mean "Encourage a murderer to move into his neighbourhood"?

 

[SnootyEnglishman]

YOu ask her out...the other guy is just in denial so what would you lose if you asked her out?

 

[Sevre]

Well if she rejects you, you would look like such a tool. I just felt it was necessary to add my own brand of pessimism to this thread.

 

[El Poncho]

Well, if you don't do it, it might end up as one of those situations, like in uh, I think it was in one of the Karate Kid movies. Where the guy thinks he owns the girl and threatens people and shit. (not good advice but meh)

 

[Instant K4rma]

Ask her. If the other dude gets mad, then he's not mature enough to see that he needs to move on and get over himself. Sometimes its better to see people as the selfish, immature people that they really are.

 

[BonsaiK]

ok well there is a girl I've been friends for with a while(who i like), who a few months ago dumped her boyfriend. After they split me and him became friends, though after shit he's said to me the past week im not sure that we are. he is one of those really emotional dudes who won't accept they're not together, so i never asked the girl out. Recently though I been having thniking about asking her out, and she seems to have an interest in me. the thing is though if i ask her out the dude is going to hate my eternal soul, and if she says yes I'm sure he won't take that well as he thinks she still loves him. what would you guys do?

I have answered this question in the Relationship Problem Thread which is at the following link: ----> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=19#4363495

 

[Shru1kan]

If you value his friendship, you'll wait.

Our rule amongst friends is 2 years, which of course is only if they got really beat up over it or were stabbed in the back harshly.

 

[ParadoxBG]

In this situation you're choosing between your happiness (and possibly hers) and that of someone else's. Now you seem like a considerate fellow (otherwise there'd BE no dilemma for you), but there's only so far that that can go before it trips over the line between 'considerate' and 'meek'. Take that as fact from someone who's been there and back again.

Sometimes you've just got to stop thinking so hard about things and just jump into the water.

 

[The Anhk24]

If you value his friendship, you'll wait.

Our rule amongst friends is 2 years, which of course is only if they got really beat up over it or were stabbed in the back harshly.

I'm trying to figure how much I value it because when they were going out he treated me like public enemy #1 even though i was nice to him the entire time, but when they broke up he started acting like I'm his best friend