You seem to have misunderstood; thing is, when i say skinny, I don't mean stick thin; I mean small, but proportionately so. I get a little annoyed when everyone's going on about not looking thin because curves are so much better. I don't want to put on loads of weight, so i don't. But no, I don't believe that I'd look more attractive if I did.
You're probably right about the weight-gaining thing, but I don't actually want to gain weight. I like my body the way it is. Also, I've noticed that whenever I put on weight, it goes to my stomach and thighs and not to the nice places I'd rather it went.
Finally, I'd like to point out that I never actually said I'M under pressure from the media and so I do whatever it tells me to do. I was merely saying many women are. They want to look skinny to fit in with the latest fashions. But yes, it is a no-brainer that if someone just likes you for the way you look then why would you want to spend time with them.