Soushi said:
Someone who you can really connect with, that you understand, that you would die for because she completes you. The kind of person who has all of these attribute, intelligent, funny, quick. I mean, preferably that person would be cute, you know: slim, short hair, brunette, hazel eyes... but this is the kind of person you would trek across the desert for, the kind of person that even a coward like me would fight against an army for. The kind who you can simply not imagine living without. *sighs* Everything else just seems... hollow, this is probably why i have never had a girlfriend...
Please, allow me to wax philosophical/rhapsodic for a moment here. I get this, a lot, from people. Heck, I've said it myself about a million times when I was younger. But really, that's kind of a lot to put on the shoulders of one human being. I don't mean the hazel eyes and all that, that's just a matter of preference, and really, one should expect a person to be reasonably intelligent. But you can't expect someone else to "complete" you, nor can you expect them to be anything more than what they are: A flawed human being.
At best, you can find someone who supplements your short comings with their strengths, and vice versa. But this isn't just going to happen right off the bat. Although once you put yourself out there, in the world, you will undoubtedly find someone who you'll *click* with. It's really more of a feeling than anything else, but it's a good start. The understanding comes with getting to know this person, and in the intimacy any relationship brings with it. And once that bond is forged, you will find within yourself the courage to fight for them if need be. That's what it is to love.
It takes time, it takes effort, it takes a willingness to trust. But in the long run, it's worth it. Even if you get your heart broken, so long as you pick up the pieces, you'll be able to forge it stronger for the next time. Even one with a half-mended heart can still be a complete person. Just my thoughts on the matter.
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