When do you become an adult?

ace_of_something

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When you start living on your own. College dorms do not count as your parents are still supporting you for the most part.

The day a boy becomes a man is when he realizes that even the prettiest girl still has to poop.
 

Vault101

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Spinozaad said:
The moment you realise that you knew nothing 'back then', and infer from that realisation that you still know nothing.
thats a good one

I think when you dont have to rely on others
 

Xannidel

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From a psychologys' point of view, you are considered an adult after the age of 25. Before that age you are considered an adolescent still but the other view point is that you are an adult when you have matured past your expectations from high school through trials and tribulations or education or maintaining a job, you can still be living with your parents if income is still not working out (better to live with your parents then on the streets homeless)

But as long as you are a productive individual then I believe that is good enough to be an adult.
 

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I plan to become an adult shortly after the release of the sequel to Sonic Chronicles: The Dark Brotherhood. However, I take no responsibility for not following through on that plan.
 

BenzSmoke

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You don't really "become" an adult, you just suddenly are one. There's no class or test or paperwork to sign. One day you just realize you're a person who pays bills. You're a person who signs up for a club card at your local grocery store because, "Oh, I might as well, I'm there so often." You're a person who gradually is getting less and less familiar with whatever's going on in pop music. You can vote and rent a car and get married and have kids, and it's not weird, it's normal.
( http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-things-they-never-told-us/ )
 

Biosophilogical

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Bassik said:
Nobody ever becomes an adult, ever. Just very tall children.
Except for those who lost their inner child. I would like us all to bow our heads for an internet-minute[footnote]An internet differing from a real world minute in that it is shorter, and from a New York minute in that it is spent posting on forums[/footnote] of silence to remember the lost inner-children, left forgotten by the roadside of responsibility.
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[small]*whispers* Gotta catch 'em all[/small]

OT: Being an adult is more of an abstract concept[footnote]Except legally, then it is a thick line carved into the sand with a space-laser[/footnote] than an actual thing. It's more of a goal than a destination. Being an adult isn't so much about perfectly embodying responsibility, duty, integrity, seriousness, etc, it's about knowing the time and place for those things, and striving for them when it is appropriate. Being more of an adult is as much about being able to identify the times for it, as being able to be those things.

Short version: Being an adult isn't about being responsible, it's about being responsible when it is appropriate.
 

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Spot1990 said:
Anyone here in their 20's? Remember how at 18 you hated almost everything about high school/secondary school you? Now in your 20's you realise college you was a giant douche? You are an adult when all those realisations combine to make you realise you will always be shit and need to be better and deal with that with "I will improve" as opposed to "Fuck that! Where's my sweat pants and nachos?"
You know, I was going to say something different about that comment but I reread it. And fuck yes, I think you're right. Generally adulthood is giving a damn about stuff and expressing readiness and desire to tackle them. It need not be everything but still stuff that you and other around you would recognise as important. You know you're an adult when you've already tackled some and can look back on your previous self and go "In your face, look at what I've accomplished! All me."

Kevin McFadden said:
as the great John Cheese once said, when you stop being the bucket under the tap, but the tap itself.
Amen to John Cheese. I really like pretty much everything he writes about. Easily one of the best columnist to follow. Him and David Wong.
 

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Paraphrasing this from another post on an escapist thread, you don't necessarily notice that you've become an adult. You are a child as long as you look forward to being adult and look fondly on adult figures simply for being perceived as adults. You are childish for as long as you restrict yourself from doing the things you like simply because you believe them to be childish. You are an adult when you don't worry about being grown up because you simply don't really notice or even care whilst participating in your usual responsibilities. You don't care about what is and isn't childish, nor you you stop yourself from enjoying things that symbolize youth in order to seem adult, you accept what you are and act in your own interests, rather than the interests that society has set for "adults".
To sum it up, you are an adult once you stop caring about being and adult and stop denying yourself things you enjoy because you believe they make you immature. (i.e., just because you are an adult, doesn't mean you need to stop buying those "childish" pokemon games.)
 

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Age... I't a black and white law thing... It's like saying 'when are you married?' The answer to that would be, when the signatures are on the paper. With 'adulthood' it is when you are of the age your country deems it.

I am from the UK, so I became an adult at 18. My mail then had Mr not Master on it, and I was legally allowed to drink, smoke, vote and the like! The whole concept of actually being something different as an 'adult' is alien to me... People change as they grow up, yes, but then they carry on changing... I am still the same as I was as a kid, just more developed...
 

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I see it as an attitude thing. Through my first year of college I talked with people who were either freshman or still in high school and started to see two seperate behaviors in people. For the sake of simplicity I named on 'high school' and 'college' behavior. This doesn't mean you have to attend either to have it. High school behaviors usually tend to prioritize social needs and react strongly whenever such happens and also usually start conflicts rather than try to finish them. I guess immature would be a better term, but it seems like everyone picks this behavior up from high and middle school. My best friend is two years out of high school with no college education and he still believes the world is out to get him.
 

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DoPo said:
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Kevin McFadden said:
as the great John Cheese once said, when you stop being the bucket under the tap, but the tap itself.
Amen to John Cheese. I really like pretty much everything he writes about. Easily one of the best columnist to follow. Him and David Wong.
I REALLY like john Cheese...also because he taked thease common Ideas (highschool is the best time of your life!) and shows how bullshit it is...but also says things that make total sense

David Wrong on the otherhand has always rubbed me the wrong way...for some reason
 

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Spot1990 said:
DoPo said:
Spot1990 said:
Anyone here in their 20's? Remember how at 18 you hated almost everything about high school/secondary school you? Now in your 20's you realise college you was a giant douche? You are an adult when all those realisations combine to make you realise you will always be shit and need to be better and deal with that with "I will improve" as opposed to "Fuck that! Where's my sweat pants and nachos?"
You know, I was going to say something different about that comment but I reread it. And fuck yes, I think you're right. Generally adulthood is giving a damn about stuff and expressing readiness and desire to tackle them. It need not be everything but still stuff that you and other around you would recognise as important. You know you're an adult when you've already tackled some and can look back on your previous self and go "In your face, look at what I've accomplished! All me."
I'm actually interested to hear what you originally thought I was trying to say.
Erm, I misread it as "Remember how at 18 you hated almost everything about high school/secondary school?" (without the "you" at the end). I was going to say how I still hate almost everything about high school but that I realised that I don't like me from back then, as well. I just hit the "Quote" button and then properly read the whole of it in the comment box.

EDIT: the quote was totally messed up.
 

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IMO you become an adult when you can help others without expecting anything in return and when you start to prioritize more around what you will need and everyone else's stake before making a decision.
 

BathorysGraveland

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I usually just associate 16 as the sort of "coming of age" age. I just think it makes the most sense and is suitable. Here in Australia, it is 18 though.