Polarni said:
Look guys (and girls), I live in a country that is (politically) about 18 years old. Historically, we've been around from 7th century. We are still recovering from the last war and genocides in Europe. (see here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yugoslav_Wars and here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breakup_of_Yugoslavia )
And I can't understand the point of *any* patriotism. It was patriotism that started most (if not all) wars in the human history. Because of Serbian and ours (Croatian) patriotism I was forced to grow up in a country that was (and still paritally is) based on coruption and hegemony. I just can't see the point of it.
And I've been to America during this summer and while (like previous posts have pointed out), most Americans just don't bother with it, the things we see (patriotism and such) as outsiders portray US as a very different nation than it actually is.
The most significant difference between former "Yugoslavia" and the USA is probably this: Your country went from freshly united Kingdom to being invaded by Axis powers to being abolished and being reinvented as a "Socialist Federal Republic" over the course of not even half a century. (Bad) things like this usually happened only to random countries on the, say, African continent or just way before the 20th century. All ex-yugoslavian member states had their own takes on religion, culture, language and, hell, even written language. During the commie years, congregating for christmas (catholic or orthodox) could be reason for ridicule or persecution. Obviously, socialism was not the proper glue to hold these rather different "tribes" together.
The USA, on the other hand, might just as well be another "young" concept, but since it meanwhile spans a large part of a continent, the only physical threats of outside influence and influx of "other" cultures would have to come from either up north (Canada) or the south (Mexico, Cuba, etc.)... in yugoslavia, communism artificially equalized different tribes and cultures, in the US, no such thing happened. In that respect, the US are still the land of the free. Granted, there are big issues that need to be addressed and fixed. The big bad boss that needed to be fought to feel free was the British Empire, in post-commie Yugoslavia the situation is still rather explosive. Your big bad boss fight would still involve fighting your neighbours, and there's still plenty of unresolved issues with, say, Bosnia-Herzegovina. It's twenty years after your last deadly conflict, and we've invented the term "Bosniak" in order not having to call them "Muslim"... official languages in Bosnia are currently Bosnian, Croatian and Serbian - they've all been considered "Yugoslavian", a language that, to my best knowledge, never existed. If you were to ask for the way in the streets of a Serbian or Bosnian town, how many would be able to identify your dialect as "Croatian"? How many would treat you as a fellow slavic soul, how many would consider you to be an intruder or subhuman? In a way, the USA have managed to get rid of all of this within, say two rather eventful centuries. The area of the former Yugoslavia hasn't had that pleasure in thousands of years of history.
So, I think that's a point for them Ahmurikuns.