Now, first off, I want to point out that I'm not naming names or pointing fingers, particularly at anyone on here. I would like to say that what's set this off is my sister's other half. Usually, a rant like this would be because of a customer at work (I work in my local grocery store). In general, and it might just be me, but why is it that sometimes family can be so... douchy!
Don't get me wrong. I love my family and would give my life for any of them. Sometimes they just piss me right off without reason.
I have had a great day today. Slept really well last night, no bad or nasty customers at work, manager not breathing down my neck, I get home and we're going to have one of my favourite dishes for dinner tonight which I'm looking forward to... but as SOON as my sister's other half gets home (I rent a room off them), he starts kicking up sh*t, shouting and arguing, blaming everything on my sister and I, most of which was his fault in the first place, and then starts having a go at me because I'd left a book on the table for a couple of weeks and that HE had surrounded and covered with his crap (which is why I'd forgotten to move it sooner).
WHY? Why the hell do people have to be like that? Fine, he may have had a bad day at work... Not my sister's or my fault, so why take it out on us? And before anyone says "Well why aren't you asking him such questions?", it's because when he's moody he's irreproachable. EVERYTHING is someone else's fault and you can't get a word in edge-wise without him biting your head off.
I know, I know. I probably sound like a spoilt kid whining or something, but I have no-one else to ***** to (my long-term colleage at work who I could always talk to recently left, so blah), and I needed to get this out as it's becoming a daily occurance and if I don't let it out I'm going to end up smacking him in the face... and I kinda like having a place to sleep at night ¬_¬'
Don't get me wrong. I love my family and would give my life for any of them. Sometimes they just piss me right off without reason.
I have had a great day today. Slept really well last night, no bad or nasty customers at work, manager not breathing down my neck, I get home and we're going to have one of my favourite dishes for dinner tonight which I'm looking forward to... but as SOON as my sister's other half gets home (I rent a room off them), he starts kicking up sh*t, shouting and arguing, blaming everything on my sister and I, most of which was his fault in the first place, and then starts having a go at me because I'd left a book on the table for a couple of weeks and that HE had surrounded and covered with his crap (which is why I'd forgotten to move it sooner).
WHY? Why the hell do people have to be like that? Fine, he may have had a bad day at work... Not my sister's or my fault, so why take it out on us? And before anyone says "Well why aren't you asking him such questions?", it's because when he's moody he's irreproachable. EVERYTHING is someone else's fault and you can't get a word in edge-wise without him biting your head off.
I know, I know. I probably sound like a spoilt kid whining or something, but I have no-one else to ***** to (my long-term colleage at work who I could always talk to recently left, so blah), and I needed to get this out as it's becoming a daily occurance and if I don't let it out I'm going to end up smacking him in the face... and I kinda like having a place to sleep at night ¬_¬'
