I just did it because my friends did. When I was hanging out with them I was the only non smoker. I might aswell light one up myself with all the secondary smoking going around.
So the tradition was he handing a fag to every guy that would have sex with his siter?ham and red bull said:That is one cool brother. For some reason it sounds like this girl is kind of slutty! lol.Homebrewdm said:absolutely not. stack of bibles.ham and red bull said:You're shitting me right?Homebrewdm said:my first cigarette was about 3 minutes after i lost my virginity. i went camping with this girl and her younger brother. after sex i stepped out of the tent and her brother handed me a cigarette and said, "tradition dude." been a smoker ever since.
I'm not saying who you should or shouldn't hate and I agree that people who smoke because of peer pressure are tossers. I'm not afraid that those close to me will leave, since these people are not run-of-the-mill friends, I just don't want to hurt them. I will quit when I have "defeated" a certain negative aspect of my personality and I'm not going to break a promise I made to myself.Gxas said:-schneep!-
Finally someone with a healthy judgement.Spot1990 said:Started when I was 14. Tried it, liked it, kept doing it. Quit for a few months last year but realised I really like it. It's not just addiction, it's the same deal with eating at McDonalds, I know it's bad for me but I do it because I enjoy it. Don't get me wrong. I am addicted again, but addiction isn't the only reason I smoke.
I think unless you eat a perfectly balanced diet, exercise regularly, never touch alcohol or any other drug you shouldn't judge people for smoking. We all have vices. We all have a balance of health to happiness. I'm a bit of a hedonist, but I'd do my best to make sure I never hurt anyone. Judging people based on things they do that affect only them seems a bit rash.
Ahh, now thats where you're wrong. I will always listen to someone tell me they want to quit. And I will always try to help. Now, my tactics have changed dramatically. Where I used to be gentle and kind, I've become bitter and angry. I'll still try to help, but I attempt it in a way that makes you feel like you're worthless for doing it. It doesn't always help, but certain people react well to that sort of motivation. I hope that you can eventually overcome this habit. I'm rooting for you the whole way.Russian_Assassin said:I'm not saying who you should or shouldn't hate and I agree that people who smoke because of peer pressure are tossers. I'm not afraid that those close to me will leave, since these people are not run-of-the-mill friends, I just don't want to hurt them. I will quit when I have "defeated" a certain negative aspect of my personality and I'm not going to break a promise I made to myself.Gxas said:-schneep!-
Anyway, this stuff must fall on dead ears, I'm sure you are tired of hearing the same old smoker stories. I respect you opinion, but by no means consider it right, though who the fuck am I to be able to judge others?
This. Also a nice cigar after a long night of drinking.GeoPB said:Stress. The god damn stress.
Just calms me down when i'm annoyed/tired/sad.
Expensive though.