the sex was increadible, i think thats what you said, but that isnt the only thing i like about herKevonovitch said:
why do i feel this way?
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yeah forgot the "r" sorry XD but anyways, yeah, gotta make sure your not just high off her, and it's your actual feelings, take the time to thuroughly, and completely sort it out, b4 u say anything. otherwise, good or bad, could end up w/ shit on your face :/jakeEHTlovless said:
You know what else is "rediculous?" Spelling the word ridiculous like it's a Crayola color. Hasn't Strong Bad taught us anything? Sorry, moving along.jakeEHTlovless said:
As to your question, I (a former relationship virgin) and my first ever BF of (currently) 3 months started saying the L word right away. But then, we had a solid 9 months of friendship behind the actual dating relationship. We know each other pretty well; that made it easier. And we're both in this for (ultimately) marriage.
So I say these feelings usually depend on how well you know each other, and how intentional you are about the relationship. If this is the case for you, it isn't really a "problem" as far as I can see. Go ahead and say the L word. It'll make you feel better.
yea, i dont care all about the sex, i actually have feelings for this girl, the sex is just an added bonusKevonovitch said:
Do what I did. (However, the girl in my case never has been my girlfriend, but still.) Don't tell her until you're absolutely, 100% sure. With me, my brain told me I wasn't, but my heart told me I was. So I thought it over for a good two or three months (not like, every now and then, but more like several times every day) and eventually and brain and heart came to an agreement, and said agreement still stands.jakeEHTlovless said:
TL;DR: don't tell her unless you know you mean it with every fiber of your being.
Then tell her. Outright.jakeEHTlovless said:
It's better to get rejected than to never find out. I know this from experience.
Look, I fell in love with my girlfriend on our first date. I didn't know it then, but I knew that something was different. You just have to be honest with yourself about it... is it REALLY different? Has this already happened to you with other girls? If so, then this isn't real love, and if you haven't had much in the way of relationships before, then it's probably just infatuation. The only way to really know if it's love is if you've been almost in love or had a HUGE crush or something, and some other relationship experience as well - so that you have something to compare it to. If it's the first time you've gone really crazy over a girl, I wouldn't worry too much about it, it's probably not love.
To quote Mark Twain - "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."jakeEHTlovless said:
So basically later on in your life you will be more disappointed if you didn't tell her than if you did. So tell this girl nothing to bad is going to happen, and if you keep thinking about the possible ramifications keep remembering the quote from Mark Twain I just provided, I hope I could help
Wow, I got here way too late to make any Scott Pilgrim jokes, but dude, if you want to watch Lost with her that bad, just ask. It's a great show - she'll love it.
You're having a problem telling your girlfriend you're a lycanthrope, eh? That is a problem... I would lock yourself in a cage the next time you are going to transform and ask her to watch. Maybe give a gun with tranquilizer darts for extra protection.
Oh shut up you emo, go listen to My chemical romance and put stripes in your hair!MikeOfThunder said:
Well, the only way to fix it is to tell her, but of course if you're young then hormones would cloud your mind.
Even if I'm only 16 then I can't stand it when they say "You can't experience love, you're just too young *deeeeerrrrrppp*" Which I think is wrong and I believe that everyone should be treated equally. Except for stupid people.
And Kotick.
If you truly have those feelings of love, go on them, don't flat out pull the "I <3 YOU!" card, but make a hint, show them that you have feelings for them.
Sort through your emotions though, don't get love and lsut confused
Sort through your emotions though, don't get love and lsut confused
Lesbian?....Lesbians?jakeEHTlovless said:
Wait on it a bit. There's nothing worse than making her feel like you're sort of rushing things. If you think she'll react okay to it, then go for it and don't hesitate, but if you think it's still an iffy time to do it, then wait.