chiefohara said:
Im only a reservist, so i can't speak for frontline soldiers.
I nearly got in a fistfight tonight with someone who cheapened what the Irish army does, and belittled their contribution to UN peace keeping mission by labeling them mercenaries.
They broadened their vague assertions to all western armies and then had the gall to lecture me on patriotism, whilst at the same time belittling what little bit i have contributed when they have done nothing. This wasn't someone trolling me for fun, but a genuine arsehole who hates the army but is more manly than them..... how is christ's name do you deal/educate a person like that and not willingly murder them?
He called me a cheerleader, and you know what... fine.... I'll happily laud to everyone the contributions the defence forces make, ill readily admit im only a reservist sandbag scumbag.... A civilian can only contribute so much, but what i can do, i bloody well do. Why should i be ashamed of that, and why should i be ashamed of the Irish army? Why should anyone be ashamed of their army?
Did he happen to be an American? or French even?
If so its less about the Army or any military in general, its because you are a reservist.
Here in America, Reservists are essentially cheerleaders, I mean, really, if you are fit to be in the reserves, you are fit to be active duty.
however, there is a difference between the weekend warrior reservist and one who is proactive in the Military. Yet again, not knowing how it is with the Irish army, but reservist in the U.S. army can volunteer for assignments that Active Duty needs done, its given in order of seniority and skills needed/have, so most people skip over it if they are not an E-4 reservist.
But I digress, how do you solve the problem of someone's opinion? water-boarding seems to work. But honestly you cant really stop people from having opinions over something, getting into a fistfight over such trivial matters is even worse, befitting of a professional soldier, even if he only gets four full weeks of service a year.
Suck it up, hang out with fellow reservists, or stop drinking/going to that particular bar.
Personally, I have a cousin that wanted to join the Army, got turned down for some reason, so instead of working to fix that problem he became a massive anti-military person, so I just stopped talking to him, last I heard he was still working on getting a college degree for a job field that is not even hiring.
Ignoring people, while impolite, often does work.