With people like that, the best option sounds like it would be to "not feed the trolls"
You can't sway the opinions of someone like that- nor do you have to explain yourself to anyone with a broad simplification of what your job is. This really goes for anyone and what they do for a living. You don't have to.
When it comes down to it, its easy to criticize something that you are in no way a part of, yourself. Easy for a lot of people that will never, or possibly never could do something like be apart of military life (even reserves like yourself.) Same people that lambaste the entire concept of a Police Force after watching 5 minutes of one brutality incident on YouTube.
Any arguments they might have, or points they might make aren't simply wrong or stupid, necessarily. However, their sudden shift in opinion makes it far too emotional or irrationally motivated. There have always been good and bad stories in the histories of any Military or Police- but an argument, let alone a somewhat civilized discussion goes nowhere if one party simply thinks the entire concept is wrong and that every single person involved is a terrible person.
Way I see it, you either tell the guy to fuck off, and don't think about it anymore- or be the bigger person and calmly stand by your views and listen to the **** while he gets angrier and angrier. More and more unprofessional as time goes on.
You can't sway the opinions of someone like that- nor do you have to explain yourself to anyone with a broad simplification of what your job is. This really goes for anyone and what they do for a living. You don't have to.
When it comes down to it, its easy to criticize something that you are in no way a part of, yourself. Easy for a lot of people that will never, or possibly never could do something like be apart of military life (even reserves like yourself.) Same people that lambaste the entire concept of a Police Force after watching 5 minutes of one brutality incident on YouTube.
Any arguments they might have, or points they might make aren't simply wrong or stupid, necessarily. However, their sudden shift in opinion makes it far too emotional or irrationally motivated. There have always been good and bad stories in the histories of any Military or Police- but an argument, let alone a somewhat civilized discussion goes nowhere if one party simply thinks the entire concept is wrong and that every single person involved is a terrible person.
Way I see it, you either tell the guy to fuck off, and don't think about it anymore- or be the bigger person and calmly stand by your views and listen to the **** while he gets angrier and angrier. More and more unprofessional as time goes on.