Why do "slutty" girls get hate?

[Wayte]

First off if any mods mind the title I apologize, it was the best word for what I'm wondering.

Ok, so the point. I constantly hear people talk about "slutty" girls like they're bad people. Which confounds me, because if a guy has lots of sex it gets him a high five fomr that same group. Even as a guy this blatant double standard confounds and irritates me. My question to you guys is "Why?" I want to know if there's any reasoning besides the sort of self serving BS I've learned to dsimiss.

 

[grimsprice]

They don't get hate from guys!!!

Lol, sexist double standards? No, i give hate to man-whores just as much as sluts.

 

[quiet_samurai]

Because it's either originated from the dudes these girls wouldn't have sex with, or the nasty ugly girls that wish they were them. It's also a hand me down of past prejudices of female sexuality that has not really gone away.

 

[Cakes]

Gender related double standard.
Next question?

 

[Artemorus]

i don't mind how girls decide to dress, but if you anger me i will be angry and nothing will change.

 

[CouchCommando]

I actually agree, there's nothing wrong with a "slutty girl". I've yet to meet a guy who complained about one ruining his evening. As for women enforcing this stigma thru jealousy and insecurity yeah I hear an awful lot of that. But then again the women I hang around are pretty crude.

 

[dodo1331]

I've always thought of it as the guy having to work for it and the woman just has to ask to go home with someone.

 

[Aura Guardian]

Which confounds me, because if a guy has lots of sex it gets him a high five fomr that same group

This to me is retarded and I'm in that for shame head down look.

As for the hate, I saw my little brother about two days ago watching this video on Youtube about a girl shaking her ass to music. Wearing just a bra and tight shorts. I'm wondering why would she do this? My guess is that sometimes, they deserve the hate.

 

[Wayte]

So pretty much it's a consensus it's just one of those things the human race hasn't outgrown.
Great! /saracasm

 

[Citizen.Erased]

Women aren't supposed to express their sexuality, it's unthinkable that a woman can have a lack of class as big as any man.

 

[Stormcloud23]

To quote Jim Jeffries:
"It's easy to be a slut. It's hard to be a stud. To be a stud you have to be witty, charming, well dressed, with polished shoes and a fake job. To be a slut you just have to be there. There are fat, ugly sluts out there, but there are no fat ugly studs. I have met slutty dwarfs, but I've never met a stud dwarf. Maybe in there own realm but none that have crossed over to our world."

 

[Syndef]

Why? I heard a lot of reasons, but from an evolutionary perspective, I learned that this attitude developed because males are unable to determine which offspring are their own, while the mother can. That means only one member of a given couple (the mother) has the ability to know for sure that the infant is being cared for. Males need the reassurance that it is their *own* offspring that are being taken care of. So of course, if a woman goes around TOWN to get DOWN with many men, it gives the message that she is an unreliable mother.

Just a theory. Thought I'd share because I just learned about it.

 

[Poopie McGhee]

I don't know... I kinda like them... They fill that "Niche" by letting you fill their's...

 

[Wayte]

Why? I heard a lot of reasons, but from an evolutionary perspective, I learned that this attitude developed because males are unable to determine which offspring are their own, while the mother can. That means only one member of a given couple (the mother) has the ability to know for sure that the infant is being cared for. Males need the reassurance that it is their *own* offspring that are being taken care of. So of course, if a woman goes around TOWN to get DOWN with many men, it gives the message that she is an unreliable mother.

Just a theory. Thought I'd share because I just learned about it.

It doesn't speak well for humanity that we let outdated instincts rule us still. In an age of rampant birth control techniques this shouldn't be a concern.

 

[Mozared]

Because 95% of our society is based on the thought that woman are objects - their beauty is their primary merit and not their mind. They represent a material gift nearly every man on earth strives to get to impress his kin with. Hence why having sex with multiple women is seen as a sign of strength in a man while it's seen as a sign of weakness in a woman. She is supposed to play hard to get so the alpha males can flex their egos and show how superior they are to other men. Basically, it's the fact that we're animals stuffed away under a very thick make-up layer of moral, political correctness and a spice of consciousness.

 

[Radelaide]

First off if any mods mind the title I apologize, it was the best word for what I'm wondering.

Ok, so the point. I constantly hear people talk about "slutty" girls like they're bad people. Which confounds me, because if a guy has lots of sex it gets him a high five from that same group. Even as a guy this blatant double standard confounds and irritates me. My question to you guys is "Why?" I want to know if there's any reasoning besides the sort of self serving BS I've learned to dismiss

Okay, so I've been thinking about this too. I think it has something to do with the different morals boys and girls are bought up on. Girls are generally taught to be more polite and homely than boys. So if a girl is more... "friendly" than is considered normal, then she's labelled a slut. Men on the other hand have the whole "wanting to spread their seed" deal, which I think gives them a little more leeway than girls. It's one of those lovely inequalities between the sexes.

 

[flare09]

Because the slutty attitude usually goes hand in hand with the bitchy and unlikable personalities.

 

[Psyco Slim]

because guys have to actually try when it comes to getting laid. a girl can go up to pretty much any guy and ask them if they want to have sex and 9 times outta 10 they will say yes. if your a guy try asking 10 girl to have sex with you. see what happens and you'll know what i'm talking about.

 

[Syndef]

Why? I heard a lot of reasons, but from an evolutionary perspective, I learned that this attitude developed because males are unable to determine which offspring are their own, while the mother can. That means only one member of a given couple (the mother) has the ability to know for sure that the infant is being cared for. Males need the reassurance that it is their *own* offspring that are being taken care of. So of course, if a woman goes around TOWN to get DOWN with many men, it gives the message that she is an unreliable mother.

Just a theory. Thought I'd share because I just learned about it.

It doesn't speak well for humanity that we let outdated instincts rule us still. In an age of rampant birth control techniques this shouldn't be a concern.

Yeah, I know what you mean. But instinct isn't going to leave us without a fight.

 

[NeutralDrow]

Why? I heard a lot of reasons, but from an evolutionary perspective, I learned that this attitude developed because males are unable to determine which offspring are their own, while the mother can. That means only one member of a given couple (the mother) has the ability to know for sure that the infant is being cared for. Males need the reassurance that it is their *own* offspring that are being taken care of. So of course, if a woman goes around TOWN to get DOWN with many men, it gives the message that she is an unreliable mother.

That...sounds kind of implausible, actually. Partly because it's rather unlikely that that's an instinct, and partly because the attitude we're talking about is cultural, not biological. Women sleeping around hasn't been a problem with everyone throughout history.