Grog289 said:
Hi Escapists,
I recently bought Dark Souls and I am having the same experience as a lot of people, namely that i've died a lot but I've found it one of the most compelling experiences in modern gaming. Normally a game that repeatedly kicks my ass would hold little appeal, yet this one is different. I rarely feel frustrated with death, but rather compelled to keep playing and eventually win. My question is this, why does this game have this effect of hardening resolve? And more importantly, is there a way to harness this resolve for real life tasks like studying?
As others have already noted, death in
Dark Souls is treated more as a learning experience rather than a failure to complete the task before you. Dying is usually either the result of naivety or carelessness (getting overconfident in previously completed sections of the game
will get you killed), and each death pushes the player to perform better than before. As a result, the difficulty is much more fair despite the game being significantly more challenging that many other games out there.
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As for how to apply that resolve to studying? Well... that's a little tricky. The drive for you to do keep pushing onwards despite the incredibly difficult content didn't manifest in my own studies until quite recently, specifically when my engineering courses shifted from mere analysis to actual design; after several years of analysis-oriented courses (which do lend themselves to the standard idea of regurgitating what you're taught), design really tests your knowledge by requiring you
to apply it. It's the difference between merely having the knowledge and understanding what it really means (and if you have to ask what that last phrase means, you don't get it).
Perhaps the best example of this for me has been structural design.... which, in all honesty, has got to be one of the most brutal & rigorous things I've ever studied. The other aspects of engineering I've studied are quite tame in comparison, though they aren't exactly slouches either. A typical average for my courses tends to be around 80%, which is appropriate for a group of students who are quite focused on their studies; in structural, it dropped to
50%. Despite the course itself being twice as demanding as the other courses (and the majority of students putting in the increased work to compensate), the marks are still significantly lower than every other course.
It's just that damned hard. Thankfully, the course is graded on a curve (of sorts); so the lower raw score doesn't translate into a lower GPA.
And you know what? It's probably one of the most interesting & enjoyable set of courses I've ever taken. Hard as hell (beware those open-book exams), but at the same time very rewarding. Definitely not for everyone though (the number of students in the structural design courses is far less than the other technical electives, for obvious reasons), but certainly worth it if it's what you love to do.
And before I forget... yeah, those kind of courses don't exist in high school.
And most of college/university for that matter.