On www.discussions.playnet.com i've got over 12,000 posts (you won't be able to see it due to subscription required) so I've got my nice little place to hang out.GeorgW said:If you want a smaller, more personal community, try the pubclub forums. As for the layout, I love it as well, so can't help you there.
I can understand that the first forums you come to can be the ones that you want to stick with though. Although having said i've got 12,000 posts on the other forum (since April 07) it does occur to me that most people posting here who say it's their only forum only have a couple thousand posts, which isn't actually very much, so I guess it's just a different type of forum in general.
With the huge amount of people on here I just can't imagine any decent back and forth conversation having or threads you can get personally attached to. We have a 'We need this thread to reach 1,000,000 pages' thread on my forums, but after 5 years we're only up to about 3,500. However the thread actually feels like a room where you can walk into and be greeted by friends who know you and you can have a laugh with. I've got ~700 posts in that thread alone, more then a lot of people have in total on here, and I just can't imagine such a monolith of a thread occuring here that I could care about as much.
So yeah, mabye I just have high standards for what I think a forum should be, and this is much more casual then what i'm used to