lacktheknack said:
I like how the thread title was one thing, and the OP started off right, but suddenly took a left turn and ran.
Anyways, geeks are bullied because they don't fight back. Almost by definition, they shrink away somewhere safe.
I fought back. Not only did it cause escalation, it also led to problems with authorities (at school and the police).
One of the great unexpected moments in my life was my pacifist parents threatening to sue the school if they suspended me for defending myself, especially since the people who started the fight got jack in terms of punishment.
I'm not sure what fighting back is supposed to accomplish, but all it did was get me in trouble.