I know I'm not the only one who experiences winter this way, I'm not depressed, nothing changes emotionally, but I can't seem to get anything fun to happen in december, for the most part winter is rather dull altogether for me, but december takes the cake, every other month plans go as planned for the most part, I can get dates/hangouts lined up I'm never alone unless I want to be or am just too damn lazy to plan anything.
Then december rolls up I fall into this void where everyone just seems to ditch or flake out constantly for no forseeable reason, even my best friends who usually have their christmas shopping and all that crap done a month or more in advance, or only hafta get one thing or whatever, dissapear and leave me just inactive.
Example, out of something like 16 dates I arranged, 15 of those women flaked, 10 of them bothered to tell me, the others stood me up, on average my experience runs at like 1 in 9 flake/stand me up, my best friends who I usually hang out with often, vanish into nonexistence, barely even returning calls/texts. I can percieve no change in the way I act/present myself, it's just odd.
Anyone else have any stories about winter being crappy for them?
Similiar experiences?
Then december rolls up I fall into this void where everyone just seems to ditch or flake out constantly for no forseeable reason, even my best friends who usually have their christmas shopping and all that crap done a month or more in advance, or only hafta get one thing or whatever, dissapear and leave me just inactive.
Example, out of something like 16 dates I arranged, 15 of those women flaked, 10 of them bothered to tell me, the others stood me up, on average my experience runs at like 1 in 9 flake/stand me up, my best friends who I usually hang out with often, vanish into nonexistence, barely even returning calls/texts. I can percieve no change in the way I act/present myself, it's just odd.
Anyone else have any stories about winter being crappy for them?
Similiar experiences?