MonsterCrit said:
Yeah, any single fathers or mothers wanna weigh in on that. I know I didn't have problems with that, I know several people who have become fathers that are no less 'maternal' than their wives are by your definition. I think this is where the roles expected by society are being confused with the reality. You think. Mothers have an issue of being over protective?.... Oh no..no no, if anything Father's are more apt to be overprotective... especially of their daughters.
I'm not going to argue with you over anecdotes, and you provided an example of the differences I was referring to yourself in a father's overprotection of their daughter, effectively confirming the argument I was making. There's no point arguing further.
MonsterCrit said:
My point is that basing the choice of director on gender as opposed to ability is sexist. It is assumed that a woman is more in touch with women's issues than a man. That's an assumption.
No, it's common sense that women generally understand women's issues better than men... because they're women. This is where you're making yourself look unreasonable. Consider my earlier Mexican example: is it reasonable to suggest that
some foreigners will understand Mexican culture better than an actual Mexican, absolutely - no question. Is it
racist to focus on the Mexican talent when looking for a director for your Mexican culture movie? No, that's ridiculous. You're gonna have more luck finding what you're after by focusing on Mexicans,
because they're Mexicans.
You're taking WB's statement that they're looking for a female director as "We will ONLY consider women for the role, we don't CARE how well a man demonstrates their understanding of women!" and frankly that just seems a bit silly. A more reasonable interpretation would be that they're looking at female directors because that's where they're more likely to find what they're looking for - and chances are they'll find it before needing to consider men. And that's
not sexism.
MonsterCrit said:
Point is, ability, not gender-assumptions. If you are basing it on gender assumptions.. it is sexist. Even if you or agree with th action, we cannot blind ourselves to the truth that the action is still sexist.
I agree with you, but I don't believe it's a relevant point in this context. Since I can't find WB stating their motivations anywhere I can't say you're strawmanning, but it's like, my opinion man, that you're making an unreasonable assumption that they're prioritising gender over ability.
TallanKhan said:
It saddens me to think we have come to a point where it is just accepted that someone has to belong to a particular gender to make a film staring someone of that same gender.
Except
no one accepts that, or is even suggesting it. It saddens me people only seem to read in absolutes. When WB says they're looking for a female director for
Wonder Woman people read "WONDER WOMAN
MUST HAVE A FEMALE DIRECTOR! THAT IS PRIME DIRECTIVE NUMBER 1!" Just... chill for a second.
TallanKhan said:
Saying Wonder Woman has to have a female director is as ludicrous as suggesting someone should have to be an orphan to direct Batman
But a competent director that was also an orphan could do a very genuine portrayal of that aspect of Batman, correct? And if you wanted to focus on Bruce Wayne's ophanhood in your movie a competent director that has experienced that first hand is likely to be of interest to you, right? And if someone said they were looking for an orphan to direct the next Batman you wouldn't cry foul that they were discriminating against directors that had living parents as a child, surely?