Well there was the fact that for a whole year beforehand neither of us really knew whether we were in a relationship or not. That was really bad for the both of us; screwed us over mentally and emotionally. However, it's also left us with a really healthy, stable relationship. So that's pretty decent. The only thing that's actually hurt me has been her ordering me to stop self harming via threat of her dumping me if I didn't. I found it surprisingly difficult. However, that was a long while ago and we're still fine, so....