Hey everybody I just wanted to thank you all for your opinions and advice yesterday and I thought you'd might like to hear the conclusion to the story. After creating the origional thread yesterday I went to her place and for the most part settled the matter. Before I go on with telling you guys what happened though I'd like to address a few things first.
Some of you were wondering what exactly my implied connection to both girls is and I will just say right now that I had sex with both of the girls in question. I'm not saying this to brag or get myself labeled as a dog, it's just what happened and I wanted to clear that up.
Secondly, I personally don't think I did anything wrong. A lot of you were acting like I had some form of commitment to this girl when in reality I don't. Regardless of wether or not I like someone, I'm not gonna disregard other possibilities. The "relationship" if you can call it that is only a month old and I wouldn't put my life on hold for it.(You honestly can't know when you'll meet the girl of your dreams so keep yourself open) That being said, I am not the type to cheat when I'm in a committed relationship which is what I wanted to try with this girl. I wasn't playing her, I just wasn't closing myself off from other prospects while she wasn't ready to commit.
So as for what happened. I did not apologise for what I did. What I did do was tell her that just because I explore other options doesn't mean that I don't still have feelings for her. If she wanted to commit thats fine, i'm up for it, but if not I wasn't going to wait arround. She decided she wanted to give it a shot(yay). Afterwards we went to Panera and then we wen't back to my place and played UNO with my roommates. Guess I'm tied down now
If you're woundering what the hell I'm talking about this is the origional story.
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.236159-Would-you-consider-this-cheating#8410420
Some of you were wondering what exactly my implied connection to both girls is and I will just say right now that I had sex with both of the girls in question. I'm not saying this to brag or get myself labeled as a dog, it's just what happened and I wanted to clear that up.
Secondly, I personally don't think I did anything wrong. A lot of you were acting like I had some form of commitment to this girl when in reality I don't. Regardless of wether or not I like someone, I'm not gonna disregard other possibilities. The "relationship" if you can call it that is only a month old and I wouldn't put my life on hold for it.(You honestly can't know when you'll meet the girl of your dreams so keep yourself open) That being said, I am not the type to cheat when I'm in a committed relationship which is what I wanted to try with this girl. I wasn't playing her, I just wasn't closing myself off from other prospects while she wasn't ready to commit.
So as for what happened. I did not apologise for what I did. What I did do was tell her that just because I explore other options doesn't mean that I don't still have feelings for her. If she wanted to commit thats fine, i'm up for it, but if not I wasn't going to wait arround. She decided she wanted to give it a shot(yay). Afterwards we went to Panera and then we wen't back to my place and played UNO with my roommates. Guess I'm tied down now
If you're woundering what the hell I'm talking about this is the origional story.
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.236159-Would-you-consider-this-cheating#8410420
