Your First Crush?

[AeroZeppelinSevenfold]

I really don't remember anymore, but I have had a few crushes that have lasted a long time, none of them ending well.

I haven't had a girlfriend yet, and I don't get it. People like me and love to talk to me, but nobody sees me as more than a friend. It kinda sucks.

Fuck. I just got Ninja'd.
I've had the guts to ask people out, but I've always been rejected sooner or later (I prefer sooner).
Think about having low self-esteem, then having it trampled on again, and again, and again.
I fear I'll become one of those guys that girls complain about their boyfriends to. You know, "oh why can't I just find someone like you?". If one of the girls I ever cared about does that, I'll probably *****-slap her. Or laugh out really loud. Then continue to comfort her of course.

I guess I'll try being an ass for a while. Seems to work for the guys my female friends date.

Ah I understand. See, I have trouble with asking them out, but none of them have a problem talking to me. I make fun of em, I be nice to em, yknow. You can't be completely nice. That is boring.

Also, having low self esteem is something to work on. I used to have the same problem, but getting down about a girl rejecting you isn't the way to go. Just forget about it, and try again. Your bound to find someone someday.

Just trying to help. I think I needed to hear some of these things too. Good luck dude.

 

[G1eet]

First kiss came in kindergarten, but I didn't have a crush on her per se.

First real crush came in sixth grade. These days, she's one of my best friends. What an appallingly ironic outcome.

 

[person427]

I built a sand castle, but it didn't really look good so I crushed it. But really, my first "crush" was in preschool, my first celebrity crush was on Misty from season 1 of Pokemon, and I have yet to have a real one.

 

[KeiraZodiac]

Year 8, girl at my bus stop, name of Amber. I was borderliner stalkerish, I would have made Edward Cullen look like Hugh Hefner.

Looking back I have no idea why, she had the personality of a moist tea-towel - curse ye annoying hormones!!!!!

 

[esperandote]

i used to alway have a crush when i was a kid, that didn't work out well.

up till junior high i used to write corny love letters to the girl i liked at the moment, they always ended up with the "cool/though" dude. I bet they regret it now :'(

 

[historybuff]

I was in the 7th grade. He totally led me on, let me think he liked me too and then said, "Never."

Ah well.

Then in high school, I plucked up the courage to ask this other guy out. He said yes and then stood me up. What a bastard.

*shrug*

 

[soren7550]

First crush of mine had to be somewhere between kindergarten and 3rd grade.

Steven Evers, a freckled redheaded kid who was in my class for my entire time at the school before I moved out to Long Island. (he was a filthy Mets fan. Pretty sure I tried to 'convert' him to be a Yankee fan.)

 

[The Sandwich]

I'm extremely unlucky with the opposite sex, so I plane to reproduce asexually.
...
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Hee, manged an arm!

Go for men. It's more fun. BU

 

[Some_Jackass]

Just found out my 1st crush turned out to be a lesbian...
...not too sure how I feel 'bout that one...

 

[Troublesome Lagomorph]

This new girl who I never figured was in my class. I thought she had a long neck, and she looked like she should be in a different class. Next thing I know is she's in my class. I did not find her attractive, but next thing I know I can't stop thinking about her. I start talking to her (on msn) and we got a little friendly. She rejected me at a party, so I did not think she'd ever like me back, but the day after Valentine's (I planned to tell her I liked her the day before) I let it slip (I decided not to tell her). We dated for about four months, then she went on vacation for two (making it a total of six months). She broke up with me two days after she got back.
It sucked.

 

[stone0042]

Mine was freshman year, and actually she's still my girlfriend. She sat next to me in a couple classes, and had the most beautiful smile and best sense of humor i had ever found in a girl. After almost a year, i worked up the courage to ask her out, and we've been dating ever since (over 17 months btw). pretty kick ass first experience in the dating game lol

I really don't remember anymore, but I have had a few crushes that have lasted a long time, none of them ending well.

I haven't had a girlfriend yet, and I don't get it. People like me and love to talk to me, but nobody sees me as more than a friend. It kinda sucks.

You'll get there, i used to be the same way. Just takes time.

 

[stone0042]

EDIT: accidentally double posted. sorry

 

[skcseth]

Susan Arendt!
Wow O_O

In all seriousness though, it was this girl Megan waaaaaaaaay back in the 3rd grade. I'm pretty sure she hated me though. Anyway, I pretended to fall and break my arm in front of her at recess one day for some sympathy points. Needless to say, it didn't work. She laughed and said something along the lines of, "Yea right, looser!". My hopes and dreams were forever crushed... That is until I got to the 4th grade and "dated" her best friend! HA!!

 

[BehattedWanderer]

Oh, hell, that was...what...2nd grade? I think. I was still in Hawaii at the time, so it had to be right around then. Bugger, if I haven't picked up at least a crush a year, though, especially these past few years. I love my girlfriend and all, don't get me wrong, I just...love other people as well. I think I'm currently crushing on...six? Yeah, six.

Wow, that's really weird to say.

 

[Jedoro]

My first was a cute then-blonde named Whitney who I went to church with, and then a few years later, I found out she had a crush on me as well, but of course, I was too chickenshit to ask her out.

Of course, now there's always that small "standing crush," I suppose, but I doubt I'll ever get a chance now. It just always nags me from the back of my mind.

 

[snugglerotunda15]

Its my first week of 8th grade to, well mine was probably last year her name was Sam (short for sammantha)And we really hit it off we've been flirting for a while and i asked her out and she said YES. but it didnt last. We were off and on for the whole year.

 

[Cavouku]

Hmm... no person I've ever met, actually... Something about a girl liking me makes me like them a bit more, not even a pity date like, just attractive. So I guess this online girl, Carly, she said she liked me after a while, somewhat out-of-the-blue.

But, I did... stupid things (as in, internet actions and words), that led to her being banned from her cellphone, and a few of her friends getting quite peeved at me. Then Emily, she said she liked me, and we've been e-dating for a while.

I don't know if that counts as a crush... maybe a counter-crush?

 

[invaderwater]

My best friend, I liked her for a while and was in denial for about 2 months, eventually told her and she well... screamed. I freaked and walked off and we didn't talk for a day or so, she told me she wasn't into other girls and has no feelings for me, in return I told her I wasn't looking for a relationship just wanted to get it of my chest.

A few months later she told me she had a crush on me and was now bi, a few days later decided she didn't and was no straight and decides she should whine every time a girl likes her. My best friend, I liked her for a while and was in denial for about 2 months, eventually told her and she well... screamed. I freaked and walked off and we didn't talk for a day or so, she told me she wasn't into other girls and has no feeling for me, in return I told her I wasn't looking for a relationship just wanted to get it of my chest. A few months later she told me she had a crush on me and was now bi, a few days later decided she didn't and was no straight and decides she should whine every time a girl likes her.

I was upset at first, but in all honesty I'm not bothered anymore.

 

[Doclector]

I had a crush on a girl once, when I was about 14. I don't know if she liked me, though, she always seemed too good for me.

TBF, as despicabally emo as it sounds, I haven't allowed myself to have a crush since. Unrequited love is pointless and painful, so I do my best never to feel it. Sure, that's not great, but I can bet it feels better than the alternative.

 

[Jurassic Rob]

Ah I remember two, and I can't remember which was first.