"Gay speech", put simply, is a collection of several different but often related speech styles which are all associated with gay men and tend to lead listeners to the conclusion that the speaker is gay.
One of the strongest markers of gay speech is pronouncing the letters S or Z with extra sibilance (like sss or zzz) or dentalizing them (pronouncing 'th' instead of 's'). The latter is why gay speech is sometimes equated with lisping, although it's pretty rare and different from lisping as a speech disorder.
What sexual availability?
It's literally just some people's normal way of speaking. Why would you in any way think it's sexual. What the hell.
Gay men don't need to advertise sexual availability. There are literally apps for that. There are saunas and sex clubs which you can just go to if you're looking for that. It's not remotely hard to have sex if you're gay. Ironically though, it becomes enormously harder the more femme you are.
I'm aware, although I would also say it's complicated. It intersects with broader cultural trends, and was also a very useful tool for advertisers because you can cross market to gay and straight men simultaneously.
It's still gross though, and fortunately the next generation doesn't seem to be buying it.
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