I've said this before, I'll say it forever.
It is not up to the democrats. It's not up to the Republicans. It is up to the independents. The Fence sitters. If the independents have feelings about this, they need to make their voice heard as well.
Even though I'm not technically a democrat any more (Progressive), it's very convenient to try to pin it on the softest target.
Republicans vote in evil and dumb asses and get to point the fingers to the democrats.
Democrats keep trying to follow rules of civility that no one cares for, and the people just want to see action. Hence the push for Progressives and the distancing of Corporates like Pelosi.
And Independents sit with their thumbs up their ass and go "I'm impartial".
If it's so universally bad that you can blame one, you can blame all. Democrats, be f'ing warriors. Republicans, Be f'ing smarter. Independents, choose a real God Damned Side.
Sadly nobody's allowed to be an independent fence sitter, if you disagree with any of the democratic tenants they brand you a republican as a way of manipulating you into supporting something you disagree with, and if you're not white you're branded a democrat because republicans are dumb or propagandized enough to think silly stuff. So people just say fuck you to both of those groups and just abstain.
Also it's interesting to say you're not a democrat any more when you're progressive, cause democrats will claim to be progressive all the time too. Pelosi said so about herself, in fact.
I say screw the labels and just embrace specific issues you care for. Like for example, I'm for a UBI, a maximum wage of at most x10 the lowest wage in a company (necessitating bosses who wish to get a raise to increase everyone else's wage first), closing most of our military bases around the planet, decimating the defense budget and investing it in civilian affairs and sciences, absolute freedom of expression and the arts which codifies a legal standard be met before someone's true thoughts can be judged by another, a cessation to all fossil fuel subsidies and reinvestment in green energy, the building of a house per homeless person, with another 100k houses to spare for future homeless people to coincide with illegalizing sleeping outside without an (expensive) camping permit. A ban to all sorts of bullets and projectiles, and multiplying the amount of judges hired to handle immigration applications so we don't have people waiting any longer than just a couple hours upon arriving at the border to get their cases heard.
Now, I don't care at all about race or gender or ethnic issues, so their exclusion will make some feel this fits the republican label, but I don't care about labels, I just value these sorts of policies the most and will vote for whoever I think is closest to them. It doesn't mean I hate other policies or the people whom they affect, I just care infinitely less about them and think they're less significant, which is an allowable view to hold, or should be anyways.
In other words, fence sitters are stupid and/or have no convictions to have courage in.
Nah they just have convictions that are not represented by either party, and don't give a fuck about other people's convictions that they do not share, and why should they.
This is what happens when only 2 parties can play the game, people who have a third view feel excluded and opt out.