it sounds like you're arguing the opposite
I'm arguing that this empty, completely uninvited comparison to the USA is meaningless, although at this point it is not unexpected. You've made it quite clear that as far as you are concerned the entire world only exists as some kind of peripheral extension of the USA.
But the situation in Russia has nothing to do with anything going on in the USA. Russia has a very different history to the USA. It has largely unrecognizable politics with very little relationship to those you are familiar with.
60 years ago, the US used a conscript army to fight a war in Vietnam. The backlash to this was very intense, and as such conscription was practically phased out of the US military in favor of the new ideal of a voluntary professional military. This military is by far the best funded in the world, and enjoys enormous support from both the political establishment and the US population. It is built from the ground up around the capability to launch global offensive operations practically anywhere on the planet, and has proven this capability multiple times.
The Russian military is essentially the rotted out husk of the Soviet military. The Soviet military, for much of the twentieth century, was near-peer to that of the US and similarly well funded after accounting for purchasing power. However, the Soviet military was in large part geared towards territorial defense with regional, rather than global, capability. Conscription was a core part of the identity of the Soviet armed forces, and was never abandoned.
There are countless other differences too. Russia is a managed democracy utterly dominated by a single party. The US is a liberal democracy with two dominant parties. The political elite of the US is drawn from the wealthy business elite, while the political elite of Russia is predominantly former members of the security services who have become a wealthy business elite by exploiting their political connections.
The situation in Russia is completely different to that in the US, so much so that the problem Agema described could not even exist in relation to the US. People in the US will tolerate their soldiers being sent to foreign countries to fight and will even tolerate them dying or being injured in significant numbers because
those soldiers are volunteers, not conscripts. There is little economic or political fallout stemming from the US military being deployed in offensive operations because it is literally designed from the ground up to do that. Furthermore, the two party system in the US allows blame for unpopular decisions to be compartmentalized within the party or individual currently in power. In Russia, the party and individual currently in power never changes, so that doesn't happen. Finally, people who are unhappy with the US political system, even those who are quite wealthy, cannot easily leave the country and expect to find similar opportunities. The same is not true in Russia, where brain drain is a massive problem.
The political situation in Russia causes a lot of problems for many people living there and, I'm sorry to have to tell you this, they are not the same as the problems you face as an American. For the sake of argument, we can happily accept that America has the worst political system ever and those who live under it are the most cruelly oppressed people on earth, but it is still insulting and reductive to pretend that they are the same.