Will his "path to recovery" involve refunding the money he lost?Oh the friggin' audacity.
Will his "path to recovery" involve refunding the money he lost?Oh the friggin' audacity.
I suspect it might involve getting more of other people's money to gamble with, because this time he's wiser and won't make the same mistake again.Will his "path to recovery" involve refunding the money he lost?
I understand that our way of understanding addiction is evolving constantly, and that past methods of thinking are incorrect and harmful. All that stuff.One on hand, I can sympathise: gambling is a terrible addiction that can take everything away incredibly quickly, and the measures the UK gambling industry have in place to prevent this are laughably pointless. Lip service of the most arsehole kind, considering how they lobbied against the measures against fixed odds betting terminals.
OTOH, I'm pretty wary of the jump to 'addiction' when it's a cover for negative behaviour (gambling with other people's money) in the pursuit of financial gain (we would not accept that someone was addicted to committing fraud, or at least if we did we would not be sympathetic.) Also: crypto nonce.
Oh, I don't think it excuses it any more than I think being an alcoholic excuses drunken misbehaviour*. But I think I can understand it without excusing it (but I don't actually know that this guy is an addict (no idea who he is or whether that would make a difference) -- crying after the fact and blaming actions on something you may or may not have control over is just a responsibility dodge in many cases.And at the same time, I don't think this excuses his behavior in any way.
Maybe it's because I don't really "get" gambling addictions.
I have a friend who's a functional alcoholic and this was his exact takeaway from getting pulled over on a DUI something like 100' from his house. He outright told the counselor he was ordered to see that he had no plans of stopping drinking, or even slowing down at it - he's just going to plan better and do any errands he needs to do before he starts drinking for the weekend.*Drink drivers take note: you're addicted to drinking, not driving.
I would applaud his sense of personal responsibility if the wake-up call hadn't been necessary -- if people want to drink themselves mercifully senseless that's 100% okay (help should be available if they decide not to); it's just not okay to drive in the process. Drink driving is something I don't think we take very seriously in the UK right up until someone is killed or maimed, and then it becomes serious. It's a serious crime regardless of consequence on that one occasion (I would, as it goes, issue lifetime driving bans on a single DUI, so running errands would get tricky either way). It's just such an unnecessary thing to do - get a taxi, train, bus, Uber, lift from a friend, whatever!I have a friend who's a functional alcoholic and this was his exact takeaway from getting pulled over on a DUI something like 100' from his house. He outright told the counselor he was ordered to see that he had no plans of stopping drinking, or even slowing down at it - he's just going to plan better and do any errands he needs to do before he starts drinking for the weekend.
There's something called the "reward pathway" in the brain; mostly ventral tegmental area to nucleus accumbens (and wider striatum). Key to this is the activity of the neurotransmitter dopamine. The feeling of euphoria from drugs of abuse is largely connected to release of dopamine acting on the reward pathway. One might note that the least addictive drugs of abuse (most hallucinogens, e.g. cannabis, ecstasy, LSD, ketamine, psilocybin, etc.) have relatively little impact on dopamine release in the reward pathway.I understand that our way of understanding addiction is evolving constantly, and that past methods of thinking are incorrect and harmful. All that stuff.
And at the same time, I don't think this excuses his behavior in any way.
Maybe it's because I don't really "get" gambling addictions.
If you don't mind my asking; what happened with the Agema account?-Snip-
Maybe they banned it, but I'm guessing not as I don't think I'd done anything unreasonable for a long time.If you don't mind my asking; what happened with the Agema account?
There was a technical issue where anyone who had it set to send the Email couldn't get it sent; they've since fixed it. As for the lack of technical support... well, yeah.It needed an email verification every 30 days, but one day I tried to log on and either it wouldn't send the email or it got lost in e-transit.
Well, it still wasn't working for me by the end of 2022. Hence this account.There was a technical issue where anyone who had it set to send the Email couldn't get it sent; they've since fixed it. As for the lack of technical support... well, yeah.
Hah, remember when the last proprietors got rid of all the tech support staff? That was a fun time.There was a technical issue where anyone who had it set to send the Email couldn't get it sent; they've since fixed it. As for the lack of technical support... well, yeah.
Mm, I'm sure that sort of thing has been in the news recently...Hah, remember when the last proprietors got rid of all the tech support staff? That was a fun time.
That would be a pity. I always valued your insights.And maybe I'll just go anyway in the end, because losing a ~13 year account feels a bit like losing a chunk of oneself. Yet to decide.
My FIL has early-onset Parkinson's and some of the medication side effects are a nightmare -- hard to tell where the disease ends and the medication begins in some places.Conversely, people taking medication for Parkinson's disease (which increases dopamine signalling) can develop impulsive behaviours - including a tendency to gambling.
Gonna echo Satinavian on this one, it would be a shame to have you go. I always admired the quality of your arguments and the measured patience with which you carried them out.And maybe I'll just go anyway in the end, because losing a ~13 year account feels a bit like losing a chunk of oneself. Yet to decide.