Is it really the "only reason?"
Ok, obviously not, my bad for wording things incorrectly.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but the bicycle preceded the automobile by a few decades, so it hasn't been anything new since its inception, and cycling still hasn't taken off as the preferred method of transportation for most people. So no, I disagree that the only thing holding swaths of people back from preferring cycling over driving a car is the lack of accommodations to do so.
Infrastructure changed along with the times to accommodate the growing automobile industry, and in turn one became more prevalent in the way cities and towns were laid out. Not to mention the large amount of spacing between houses, districts, and businesses. This isn't even getting into lobbying that helped cause things to turn out the way they have to begin with.
When two options are available, and the way things are designed leans heavily in favour of one over the other, then most people are going to lean towards the one most convenient and accommodated for... especially if the alternative doesn't get much care or attention for it to be feasible as an option.
Ask the mother of three children strapped in the backseat with $250-worth of groceries in her trunk, and oh, she's late for her OBGYN appointment 25 miles away. If only she had a bike lane! She might have spent more time cycling instead of procreating!
I'm not saying that biking as a transportation alternative needs to be accommodated for to the point that driving a vehicle is no longer an option, or that bikes should be used for everybody regardless of whether or not it fits their individual needs or circumstances.
You're bordering on a straw man here. Dial it back a notch, smartass.
Listen, folks, I'm not anti-cycling. If it works for you and fits your lifestyle, then by all means, live your best life; pedal to your hearts' content. Here's hoping you never need to get anywhere far away quickly. But lamenting that the place you live doesn't make it convenient is pissing in the wind. I might as well start a thread titled "How can you stand making less than a billion dollars a year?" then follow it up with a sob story about gophers digging up my life savings I had buried in my backyard because I don't trust money management utilities that are lopsided towards traditional banking systems.
Other than that, you lot have simply been positing "coulda-woulda-shoulda," which is fine, but doesn't do much in the way of substantive discussion. Reality is, no municipality is about to throw millions of dollars into substantial, city-wide construction for the few cyclists it might benefit, not when they're already using the roads with abandon. Sorry it's not perfect for them.
Not sure if I like the tone of your stance overall, especially here.
The original name of the thread and the framing of its topic could've been different, sure. However, at its core it still has plenty of discussion value and tons of good points have been made. I find you're coming at it with a vibe of "the reality is that this is the world we live in, so suck it up, conform to it, and get over it" which in of itself doesn't bring much discussion value. It shuts it down, if anything